无奈，感觉象民工回乡
 

跟着老公，辞去卡城不错的工作，来到FORT MCMURRAY这个鸟不拉屎的地方，我很烦燥。

去过那个地方，记得漫天飞雪，阴郁的天低低压着城市，是容易让人心情不好。不过商店里还是很热闹的，多出去走走，没准心情能好点，等重新开始工作了，就没有时间烦了。

I have two kids.
 

daycare fee is too expensive

我想去那里还没机会呢,你闹啥?

呵呵。。。。。。。。。。。。

是啊。我也没机会。羡慕楼主ing.
其实把心放宽，看到事物美好的一面，你的心情就会好很多，你看周围就觉得什么都好，心情更好，对人对事也会更加NICE。相反，你觉得那什么都不好，结果看什么都不顺眼，心情就差，对人对事就没有心思处理好，结果越来越糟糕。
享受生活吧，你们已经进入专业工作的行列了，比累脖的时候好多了。有家庭的可以把更多的时间放到家庭生活中。

Don't worry about it. If you consider about the money your 老公 is earning you will feel easy.

I feel frustration
 

Because I have to give up good job in big oil company at Calgary. Salary is good. the reason I have to quit is husband can't find good job in calgary. I have to give up......

做头儿慣了
 

夹着尾巴憋气了，
拿FORT撒气了。
要放气，很容易，
找个工作解决了。

可两头相碰要出事。

If I were you, I would have given up husband, be a little bit selfish is not bad sometimes.
To be surprised, I have seen lots of good women are very obedient to their husbands like you. Could not understand................

Not good thing if separate too long
 

we have already separated more than 2 years. He lives here. I and two kids live in calgary. Expenses are high. we have to pay two accommdations. especially the kids they need daddy. my husband drive to calgary almost every shift. it's dangeous, one year his car drive 120,000km. For safe reason, I am here.

不可理解，你在卡有很好的工作，生活也应该不错了，为何还要你老公一定要跑这么远去工作？你老公在家带两个孩子或者随便找个什么工干干不是也很好吗？难道挣钱比家庭生活更重要吗？如果你更看重家庭，那为什么就不能在找工的问题上有所舍弃呢？何况你已经有很不错的工作了。任何事情都是有得有失，关键是看你自己如何选择了。

一家人在一起才是最主要的，对不对？

楼主别郁闷了，开心一点哦！

理解。从多伦多来到卡尔加里, 觉得卡尔加里也是个鸟不拉屎的地方.