Feb 16th, 2004, 19:12 | #1 |
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我34了,LP29,该生孩子了,准备11月前长登温市。 我原计划在国内怀孕,然后去加生产。至于以后长驻还是撤退孩子都有加身份。 现在老婆不想生。她身体差,觉得在加生没人照顾她(她觉得怀孕和产后她必须有人照顾,只我一个都不行),我如果照顾她就不能找工作,所以不能生,除非申请她妈去照顾她。我不知道家属申请还要多久,只是觉得这样操作太复杂了(花费也不小)。我觉得我们的积蓄可以维持两个人10个月以上。 另外,她甚至想上学后再生,我觉得那时生年纪都太大了,而且,那时我不是也要停止工作照顾她吗?为什么不放在刚登陆熟悉加拿大的这个阶段做这件事呢? 现在很彷徨,我说服不了她(我耐心不好),怎么办!? ----------------------------- 太起劲了不好。我就不急,我只是谢顶! |
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Feb 17th, 2004, 03:56 | 只看该作者 #3 |
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Right! ''去了加还是实际一些好,如果两人只有维持10个月的储藏,那还是让你老婆别那么娇气了。'' It's a good idea! I knew my two friends bear their bay in Canada. One was born in Canada within 4 months after they landed. Of course, to bear a baby is a very great thing in a family, so man should analysis the pro and con. I was told that woman can bear a baby under 40, I think you are young and at lest you have 10 years to consider it |
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