Dec 16th, 2008, 23:12 | 只看该作者 #66 | |
Joe的马甲
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疼,会让人丧失理智。用孩子当借口,只是为了坚定产妇不用麻药的决心——也是产妇自己的决定只不过一疼她给忘了——而不是丈夫为了显示自己的权威。因为那个时候一般丈夫的权威是无效的,但是孩子是至关重要的——至少对妈妈来说,为了孩子一切都认了。所以丈夫在发现对产妇劝慰无效的情况下,为了维护妻子的利益——避免副作用,以及为了维护妻子的决定(理智的时候),只能搬出孩子来做强有力的后盾。另外,丈夫还可以避免妻子恢复理智(生完)以后算旧账。 如果你还不明白,那就算了。当我啥也没说。 |
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Dec 17th, 2008, 10:56 | 只看该作者 #74 |
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生孩子还用麻醉?。。。。我记得没用麻醉,会不会医生偷偷的给我用了。。如果忍一时的疼痛换来宝宝一生的健康,我肯定不会选择用麻醉。记得当时生的时候我就跟自己说,很多女人生过孩子,别的女人能吃的苦我也一定能受得住。我的邻居早我一个月生的小孩,顺产到一半,小孩出不来,只好再进产房,打麻醉剖腹。 为了能顺产,我天天锻炼爬楼梯,生产前我比我老公都爬得快,一口所就上了5楼。6点多就和我老爸在公园里做早操。 我痛了一天一夜,生的时候连口水都喝不进了。医生把我痒水弄破后,我就怕小孩子缺痒,就往死里用力。我儿子一会儿就出来了。医生都惊奇我能生的这么快。 女人生孩子是个关口,对小宝宝来说也是一个关口,大人可以为自己做选择,小孩没权选择,这不公平。如果对小孩子不好,就该挺住,除非到生死关头。 |
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Dec 17th, 2008, 11:31 | 只看该作者 #80 |
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Shut Up And Let Me Go BY The Ting Tings http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8r23cm7bL9E For the last time you will kiss my lips Now Shut up and let me go Your jeans were once so clean I bet you changed your wardrobe since we met Now oh so easily your over me Gone is love It's you that ought to be holding me I'm not containable This love now It's not sustainable I ain't freakin' I ain't Fakin' this I ain't freakin' I ain't Fakin' this I ain't freakin' I ain't Fakin' this Shut up and let me go Hey! Shut up and let me go This hurts, but I can't show For the last time you had me in bits Now Shut up and let me go! For fear of living in regret I changed this one when we first met Now oh so easily your over me Gone is love It's me that ought to be moving on You're not adorable I want something unignorable. I ain't freakin' I ain't Fakin' this I ain't freakin' I ain't Fakin' this I ain't freakin' I ain't Fakin' this Shut up and let me go Hey! Oh love, hold this. Hey Shut up and let me go This hurts, I told you so For the last time you will kiss my lips Now Shut up and let me go Hey! |
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