Jun 24th, 2004, 16:28
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My husband forgot my birthday today. I am so sad. What should I do? Maybe nothing. That's my lifestyle. No romance, no flowers, no care. I just want to divoice, divoice. I am crying for myself. I do not want to be here any more. Where shoudl I go? China was good, not my destination. Canada is good, not my home. |
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Jun 24th, 2004, 18:48
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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by su_fj2003: My husband forgot my birthday today. I am so sad. What should I do? Maybe nothing. That's my lifestyle. No romance, no flowers, no care. I just want to divoice, divoice. I am crying for myself. I do not want to be here any more. Where shoudl I go? China was good, not my destination. Canada is good, not my home. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE> 这女孩子吧, 有时候也真是的, 你提前两天假装忽然记起, 提醒他你的生日到了, 问他会给你买什么不就行了.非的让他自觉, 这可倒好,出事儿了不是? |
对于完美的追求已经超越了吹毛求屁， 精益求精的程度已经达到了画蛇添足的境界，虽偶能得手，但距离纯熟的画龙点睛尚有一步之遥。
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Jun 24th, 2004, 21:06
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赞成天然JJ or MM的建议!  顺便告诉楼主,这点小事情不要太在意,也许你老公近期工作很忙,真的忘了呢?老夫老妻的,就给他一个机会吧.也许他现在正在后悔呢,发愁怎么哄你这个LP高兴呢.  <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by 天然: 有些男生就是不自觉。 对于这种男生，LP第一的浪漫主义教育要日日讲，月月讲，时时讲！  对于那些木鱼脑袋，暗示是不行的。要明示。 在生日前一天不妨与朋友大事庆祝，最好夜不归。 等他焦急的问起，就作轻描淡写状，说，这是庆祝生日呀，今天是小聚，明天还有位男士要单独约会呢。 那木鱼也该开窍了吧？ 如果再不开窍，那你直接去约会得了。 JJ可千万别为这等小事想不开，以后的生日还多的是呢。够他好好补尝，别便宜了他。  <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
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Jun 24th, 2004, 21:48
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呵呵，试想一下，如果我是你，当时可能也会生气伤心的！ 不过就是因为你们是夫妻，在一起相处久了，他才觉得和你不是什么外人，有些时候就难免忽略了一些事情和你的感受！ 所以我们可以转念一想，假如他要是给你很隆重的庆祝一下生日，而等他过生日的时候，你再为他买些礼物，似乎感觉又把什么东西还回去了，没有什么惊喜和心意。反而现在不是更好，让你有机会在他生日的时候给他一个惊喜和意外，让他深刻的感觉你很在乎他，连他的生日你都不会忘记，也许这样会更加加深你们的感情，我觉得其实平淡有时候也未必不是幸福！！ 楼主姐姐，你说呢，我相信你是幸福的女人！！
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 我爱你，可是我不敢说，我怕我说了马上就会死去； 我不怕死，我怕我死了，再也没有人像我一样爱你！ |
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Jun 25th, 2004, 15:03
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Today I am fine. However I still think my life is crappy. I am overwhelmed by my graduate study here. One more step is hard for me. No sex life, no passion, and no deep love. Heart is the fire of organ, right? I still think I have the responsibility for my family. Although my life is plain, I still want my husband to be around me. I do not mean to hurt him. If possible I will write in Chinese here. English words could not express my feelings. |
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