Dec 15th, 2010, 13:19 | #1 |
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【讨论】怎样改变严肃的性格?
孩子大了, 非常不喜欢我严肃的性格,怎样改善呢?为什么会让人有这样的感觉呢?专注工作会让人变得严肃吗? 怎样培养现在的后代有理想,有抱负呢?还是到了资本主义社会彻底资本主义个人主义了? |
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Dec 15th, 2010, 23:36 | 只看该作者 #8 |
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1, 我的朋友们对我微词:你好像吃饭、睡觉都是为了工作;我笑得眼泪都出来了, 但心里知道:这是真的; 2, 我们从小就有理想和抱负,这个我的朋友们也批评了我很长时间,我还是没有能板正过来:比如:他们告诉我,现在在这里就是为了生活好和挣钱多,可是你还谈什么理想和事业,让人笑话, 可是我还是觉得,有理想和事业心,会让我们生活有目标,精神上有追求寄托,社会生活有凝聚力, 比如:我的理想之一是让华裔能真正强盛受到尊敬地位提高心情愉快各方面办事通畅,难得不好吗? 可是我的朋友们会笑话我,劝我别异想天开什么的,说我不会为自己家庭着想,可是理想有时候是很难改的,即使别人笑话,也会默默坚持的, |
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Happy365 (Dec 16th, 2010) |
Dec 16th, 2010, 12:57 | 只看该作者 #13 | |
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非常清楚自己专注于什么,只是感觉时间的饥饿和饥渴。我的主管和我都是有同感。没有办法似的。 似乎care的东西太多了,照顾不过来。只有学会选择和放弃... 结果是要考虑一下,结果---这个很有效--- 其实很CARE孩子的未来,可是关注太多,似乎不行,变成了干涉,又帮不了真正的忙,变成了帮倒忙, 感到自己心跳的静思?这个很新鲜, |
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Dec 16th, 2010, 15:06 | 只看该作者 #15 |
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此帖于 Dec 16th, 2010 15:37 被 宋祖德 编辑。 |
Why they are friends, because they believe in your dreams, no matter how silly they may seem. I love you MY FRIENDS be specific, be logical, be reasonable 一些中国同胞不远万里来教育落后的加拿大同胞 |
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Dec 16th, 2010, 20:26 | 只看该作者 #19 |
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正在读一本书,今天刚看到的内容,抄过来共勉: Do some parents find it harder than others to praise their children? "It's not that I have any real objection to praising my child, it just isn't something that comes naturally to me and so I don't do it." Very often parents who don't praise their children are people who don't praise themselves. They are often very critical of themselves for their mistakes, conflicts, and difficulties.They may tell their children about problems they have, but rarely do they mention their successess at work or in the home. Such parents do not model self-praise . If they listened to their internal self-talk, they would find that they are not saying things like, "You're doing a good job of disciplining Johnny," or "You handled that conflict calmly and rationally," or "You've been very patient in this situation." Instead to speak to themselves in positive statement and to create positive experiences for themselves as incentives or rewards. They will then b more likely to do the same for their children. It is important for children to see their parents modeling self-prasie statement. like "That was a tough situation but I think we handle assignment at work"......................... 一看就知道那不是我能写出来的,我的英语水平还达不到那地步 |
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