吼吼，渣打门竟然是熟人！

[sage]

英文原文：
Dear friends,
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted our ways. Yale moved out last week.

Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,

Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knew when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had their swimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December 18th,2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. for Christmas vacation. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight, you and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of Bangkok for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered if the level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to the level of devastation this vacation had brought to my children and me. Diane, I often asked myself what was it like for you to sleep in the arms of another woman's husband, other children's father? I wondered if you ever thought about us, the children and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood, that we have feelings, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. I pondered if you knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joy would bring endless tears to us.

We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our Beijing home. My son screamed:" Mommy, don't touch those, they are disgusting! Set them on fire, burn them to hell. They are the devil's cloth!" My children are hurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says "Mommy, I don't ever want toget married." My son, 8 years old, says "Diane is our Voldemort!" The psychological damage this affair has done to my children is catastrophic. They are foreveremotionally damaged. With this, I announce you the winner.

How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knives stabbing and chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left me in so much pain that I don't know how to heal myself. This affair has taught me tear supply can actually be infinite. This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse walking around with no heart. I don't know how to deal with this kind of pain. I don't know how to move on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I pray to God that you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal and hurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all,we are all women and we all deserve to be happy.

With sincere regards,
Lily

英文版的老公回复

Lily,
Please do not bring the personal issues to the public. The truth of the facts is that our marriage had been falling apart 8 years ago, divorce had been in discussion 5 years ago. Our issues are known to all the people in the word! Diane had done nothing wrong for her part! I am firmly standing by and behind Diane. I will certainly hope she will marry me one day soon!Trying to tell the people how evil I am and Diane is in this way is not going to succeed! All the people, who knows you, me and our marriage, supported my divorce, including my good friend Zhu Wei. I am sorry I have dragged everyone into this. Lily please move on!

Sincerely yours
Yale

南京话版翻译闪亮登场了！！

亲戚朋友们：
我都有的儿不好意思开口。在一块堆儿过了十三年唠，娃儿都生了两个了，这个臭不要脸的鸟男人还是不跟我玩了，个狗日的，上个礼拜蹿的了。

小三子：
这个几年里头，你对我家的情况是掌握得准确的一塌带一抹噢！我家娃儿什么时候踢球、什么时候游泳，你个小B养的都晓得，他们的小名字，你都叫得出来。009年的12月18号，我前脚带着娃儿Ki美国度假，后脚你个小B养的就跟着那个死不掉的老炮子子Ki普吉岛鬼混。你个狗日的表忘唠，你不也是个蹲着撒尿的么！你晓不晓得你们两人在他妈的那头有多开心，我带着娃儿孤儿寡母的在这头就有多受罪？要是我换成你，才没得脸跟另外一个女人的丈夫，还有几个娃儿的老男人做这种倒楣瞌冲的无歹事情呢！我们孤儿寡母，也是老爹老妈养大的，也是血肉之躯，你个小妖精阿忍心啊，酱紫害我们！你不就是要把你的快活压在我们的痛苦之上么！

上个礼拜我回家过年，没得想到，你的衣裳还那么不要脸的持在我家的房间里头。 我儿子哭着喊着叫我把你的衣裳烧的地，讲太恶赖了！我家丫头才9岁，就说她以后不敢结婚唠，我儿子8岁，讲你是我家的扫把星。我把我家娃儿们纯洁幼小的心灵，都搞成杯具唠！他们的这辈子算是完了，给你毁的唠！你真太狠唠！

回头再讲讲我自己。唉，我这刻儿的心里头，像是被戳了无数个窟窿眼儿，疼啊，疼的是一的儿办法都没得！眼泪水么，淌的就跟大河一样滴的！我就跟魂给收走了样的。光剩个躯壳了！怎么办哩，你讲怎么办哩！要不是看在两个娃儿没得人带，我就不活了！小三子，我巴望你这辈子表搞到临了搞的跟我一个下场，还好啊？！


婆子：
多大四啊，表搞的满到四处都晓滴阿好啊？你我8年前就讲不到一块堆唠，5 年前就时不时的韶韶离婚唠。哪个表滴你我这的儿四啊？跟Diane有屁相干啊？告你讲，我跟她马急就Ki结婚了，你想怎样办就怎样办好了！

你把我跟她讲成魔鬼，你心里头就快活了吧？门都没得！认识你我的人都讲“早就该分手了，老酱紫不是个办法”！就连老朱都 酱紫讲。不好意思嗷，把不相干的人都弄来打酱油唠！哎，就算是我求求你阿行啊？你快的儿蹿会死啊？


北京话版来也

亲们：
在一起过了13年，生了俩孩子，这个臭不要脸的男人还是跟我分手了，丫上周滚蛋了。

小三：
这几年你对我们家了若指掌啊。我娃啥时候踢球啥时候游泳你tm都知道，连他们的小名儿你都叫得出来。09年12月18，我前脚带着孩子去美国休假，你tm后脚就跟着臭不要脸的去普吉岛厮混，去曼谷血拼。你丫也是一女人啊，知不知道你们tmd在那边有多high，我们孤儿寡母在这边就有多惨？我要是你，才没脸跟另一个女人的丈夫，还是几个孩子的父亲做这种龌龊事。我们孤儿寡母也是爹妈养大的，有血有肉的，你tm竟然忍心这么伤害我们！你tm就是把你丫的幸福建立在我们的痛苦之上！

上周我回北京过年，竟然看到你丫的衣服那么淫荡地挂在我家里。我儿子哭着喊着让我把它们烧了，忒脏！我闺女才9岁，已经说她以后不敢嫁人了。我儿子8岁，说你是我们家的灾星。你tmd把娃们幼小的心灵彻底整成杯具了。他们这辈子毁你手里了。算你狠！

我呢？我tm现在是万箭穿心啊，疼的没招没落的，悲伤已经逆流成河。我tm现在就是一行尸走肉了。咋办，你说咋办。要不是为了娃们，我也活不下去了。小三儿，我祝福你，祝福你这辈子别重蹈我的覆辙。祝你幸福，祝你全家幸福。


以下为上海话版本……

百合花,

谢谢弄伐要闹私拧感情带到工作高头来.现在额事实就是阿拉8年额婚姻生活邦特了,阿 拉5年前头就讨论离婚了.全世噶额拧才晓得阿拉额事体额好伐.小戴根本么组粗特撒事 体.无绝对登了一背后头撑一额,无覅特想快地帮一结婚噢!

弄想起帮拧噶刚无帮小戴有多少多少坏是伐会成功额,所有拧,才拧得弄个则女拧额,才 晓得阿拉额婚姻额,一拉才支持无离婚额,包括无要好额旁有猪尾.无老对伐起拿额,闹拿拖进来.百合花弄继续呀有本事弄继续好来!
此致
亚

亲爱额小戴/淘丹阳(音译)

了了古起额婚姻生活当总,弄晓得所有阿拉窝里额情况.弄晓得阿拉小拧额比赛成绩;弄 晓得一拉参噶额游泳训练,弄晓得一拉额小名.了了2009年12月18号,无带老一拉乘中浪 乡额航班到美国起古圣诞节.就是了同一天,2009年额12月18号,弄帮无老公乘下半捏额航班到普吉岛海滩起白相了,还等了曼谷穷买么司,号称古圣诞节.小戴,同样是女拧,无
一直老想晓得,拿册起白相带八弄额惊喜是伐是帮带八无跟小拧额伤害是一样额.小戴,无阿一直了门自噶像弄个能噶困了别额女拧额老公,别额小拧额亚旁边是撒感觉?无 爱老想晓得,弄到底考虑古阿拉伐?考虑古小拧帮一老婆伐?阿拉是有血缘关系额呀,阿 拉额感觉,可能对阿拉造成额伤害,老痛老痛额伤害,痛的来奥起话一额伤害,弄到底想古伐?我穷想八想到底弄是伐是晓得弄了破坏一额家庭,弄乃弄额开心建立了阿拉额眼粒四高头!

额礼拜阿拉回到北京古尼,弄额衣裳居然了阿拉窝里,无尼子突乱之间叫起来:”姆妈, 覅起旁一!一拉老窝应额!闹一拉多到火里烧特!个眼才是狐狸精额衣裳!”无小拧伤了深啊!无囡恩,则有9岁,一刚”妈妈,无再阿覅结婚了”无尼子,则有8岁,一刚:”小戴就是 则伏地魔”(见哈里波特)个窝措事体带八一拉额心理伤害是相当杯具额.一拉永永远远伐会恢复了.是额,无承拧弄赢了.

小戴,无有撒感觉?个脏事体就像无额心八1万步刀子乱戳八戳(千刀万剐);个脏事体带 八无噶深噶深额痛苦以至于无根本伐晓得哪能恢复;个脏事体娘无晓得眼粒四原来真额流伐光额;个脏事体完全毁特无了!无现在就是一具则会走路额尸体(行尸走肉).无根本 伐晓得要哪能此理个种痛苦;无根本伐晓得要哪能继续生活下去.但是无还有小拧,无必
须活下去.小戴,无希望菩萨保佑弄永远阿伐会旁着个种背叛与伤害.无希望弄高亚会得古了开心,因为,刚到底,阿拉才是女拧,阿拉才应该得到幸福.(个女拧哈虚伪…纯属古拧 意见)

此致敬礼!

百合花

[sage]

发件人: Tao, Diane
　　
　　发送时间: 2010年2月25日 10:25
　　
　　收件人: Zhang, Lily
　　
　　主题: Re: Dear friends ... Moving on ...
　　
　　
　　Dear Lily,
　　
　　
　　I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your personal life, and I sincerely hope that you will find a way to deal with it that is the best for you and your children.
　　
　　
　　I do understand how you feel. I also understand, however, that a marriage can only break apart from the inside. I do not appreciate your attempt to smear my re@#$@*&tion and paint me as the home wrecker. You know as well as Yale does that your marriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met. Whether or not I am in Yale’s life has nothing to do with the eventual outcome of your marriage. I am sure you understand this as well, but you nonetheless sought to burn me on the cross as the scapegoat for your failed marriage, which I do not believe is a mature thing to do.
　　
　　
　　Your description of the emotional damage your children have suffered is disturbing indeed. I cannot help but wondering what you have been telling them. I would think that a mother’s first and foremost priority is to protect her children from any emotional damage, rather than using them as bargaining chips with a spouse or as props to win public sympathy. Yale is the children’s father and will always be. I am sure he will always love them and be the best father he can be to them. Wouldn’t it make more sense, for the sake of the children’s wellbeing, to emphasize to them that both their parents will always love them even though one parent will not be living with them all the time? I do not see what benefit there could possibly be to teach the children to hate their own father.
　　
　　
　　You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale’s arms. I also wanted to ask you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to someone who clearly does not want to be with you at all? Lily, you are intelligent, highly-educated and you have a high-paying and well-respected job. So why did you spend so much time and energy trying to force someone who does not care about you to stay with you? As a fellow woman I want to ask you this, don’t you think you deserve better? If there’s anything that is worse than sleeping in the arms of another woman’s husband, it is sleeping in the arms of someone who resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run away from you whenever he gets a chance. So Lily, why would you want to put yourself in that situation? Once again, don’t think you deserve better?
　　
　　
　　I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling will subside soon and you can turn a new leaf in your life. Please remember, you can lose a job, you can lose a spouse, but you should never lose yourself. And please, do not vent your negative feelings on your children. They are innocent. Please always keep in mind their best interests rather than your own. You deserve true happiness, and I hope that you will find it soon.
　　
　　
　　Best regards,
　　
　　
　　Diane

[sage]

可以看得出，两位女士的英文比羊鸭肋可是强多了。这么两个女人为了一个鸭肋争风吃醋可真不值得。

[Emilyyu]

你跟楼下的虫子同时转相同的贴子，我第一次看到这种现象发生。这贴子太强了

男人对几个女人抢，会不会得意呢

[sage]

小三还挺漂亮的吧？俺们学校当年的校花呢。跳舞的，身材脸蛋都不错。
好多年不见都不能肯定还是一个人了。

[sage]

闲总跟小三她哥还是同班同学呢。厚厚。

[Emilyyu]

作者: wiki

小三还挺漂亮的吧？俺们学校当年的校花呢。跳舞的，身材脸蛋都不错。
好多年不见都不能肯定还是一个人了。

哎呀呀，还真认识呀，好漂亮，当小三看来真是时髦玩意

[sage]

我可真够无聊的。BS自己一下。
洗洗睡了。

[_虫二]

跟WIKI 握个手，在文学城上看到了，顺手就转了。

男人的英文不是太强，至少我能看出不地道。不过我转这个是想看看大家怎么想这个事的。

要我是老婆的话，估计会让自己尽快走出来，重新寻找自己的生活，并且不让孩子受此影响。说说容易，估计做起来比较难，尤其在生活了多年以后。

[Emilyyu]

从信中可以看出，女的不是不能离，是无法忍受耻辱，是愤怒 一，他们是同事；二，老公跟相好过于张扬：小三在她母子不在家里住到家里去了；在她带孩子度假时，老公跟小三潇洒去了

如那老婆说的，心被千刀万剐了，有些伤可以恢复，有些痛可以淡忘，而这样的伤痛就不是那么容易了，它不是谈恋爱时给插一脚，一转身把眼泪擦干就完事了。

[_虫二]

小三的英文还真不错，写的比我写的好多了。
其实如果这封信如果处于他人之手，劝老婆看开之类，我会说写的精彩，但是作为一个小三（不管实际情况如何）， 写这个，好像太强势， 毫无体贴怜悯之心了。自己也确实理亏啊，在人家没有了断之前，还是没有瓜葛的好。

爱美丽MM, 我知道很多伤痛是一辈子的事， 你以为忘了，其实在很多夜晚，在很多不经意的时候，它仍然会窜出来，让你不自觉的流泪。但是我觉得真处理这些事情的时候，还是要理智些。 对真想和你分开的男人，不如洒脱些，留给男人一个决绝的背影好过死缠。

[calgarylao]

挺奇怪, 3个都是中国人, 干嘛不写中文?

不过这事我觉的LP 做的不明智, 换了我, 一句话不说, 直接离昏就完了, 扯这么多淡干嘛?

[sunshine]

作者: wiki

我可真够无聊的。BS自己一下。
洗洗睡了。

亲家你睡得可真够晚的。。。。。

[ForeverYoung]

只能等回家看了，同事捉住可不好玩了。

[sunshine]

作者: ForeverYoung

只能等回家看了，同事捉住可不好玩了。

81　COPY　PASTE到WORD文件里，打出来看。。。

[sunshine]

作者: calgarylao

挺奇怪, 3个都是中国人, 干嘛不写中文?

不过这事我觉的LP 做的不明智, 换了我, 一句话不说, 直接离昏就完了, 扯这么多淡干嘛?

有时候有些话好象觉得用英文更好说。。。。。不过，真的，俩女的英文写得真不错。。。。

[ForeverYoung]

作者: sunshine

81　COPY　PASTE到WORD文件里，打出来看。。。

好主意！

[红樱桃，绿芭蕉]

怎么一个婚，5年还离不干净？
老婆写东西没有条理，拿孩子说事儿给人抓把柄，确实她写的有关于孩子怎么遭罪那段我看着没意思，保护不了孩子还拿孩子出来争取同情分，不够理智。
老公是个软蛋，5年拖拖拉拉不能离清白，可能也是眷恋着有个形式主义的家，不用付额外的赡养费吧，有了小三才下定决心离开早不稀罕的所谓的家庭生活了，可见不是什么好东西。
小三挺强势，怎么不长眼爱上这么一个混蛋东西，世上好男人多了去了，招惹这么一个不干不净，拖泥带水的软蛋王八蛋有意思么。实在要，也等人家把婚离清白了再下手不迟萨。

BTW，几段方言版很可乐。。。

[boyer]

作者: wiki

小三还挺漂亮的吧？俺们学校当年的校花呢。跳舞的，身材脸蛋都不错。
好多年不见都不能肯定还是一个人了。

有种狐媚

[sunshine]

作者: boyer

有种狐媚