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来加可以给自己重新设计的机会 考虑一下自己想要什么 it pays off 另外在加读书很便宜(一个LLM只要几千加元) 可以在工作之余upgrade自己 就算以后回国 也有用 可以选读一些国内缺乏或不太强的专业 如心理学、社会学和市场学(国内很充斥,但真正好的寥寥无几)等 |
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消消气
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戴surgical mask不管用
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是否可持续?
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人心浮动啊
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楼主请继续
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楼上还是很有观点的
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【转帖】你回国吧,中国多复杂啊!
曾经,出国留学读学位,毕业留下找工作,娶妻生子买house,是一个水到渠成毋庸置疑的选择。但突然有一天,“市场经济的春风吹遍了祖国的大地”,一直在国外的实验室、公司小隔间里默默耕耘着的中国人猛地抬头,发现太平洋彼岸,祖国的大地上已千树万树梨花开了。 紧接着,“坏消息”接踵而来。留学生开始听说以前住他隔壁的张三已经是国内某某大公司的经理了;还有那个人不怎么地的李四,听说他小蜜已经换了半打了;然后,在一次回国的旅途中,他发现自己在国外吃的、穿的、玩的、乐的,只能望国内朋友们的项背了;还发现自己在为一个小数据的打印错误而向自己的部门经理频频道歉点头哈腰的同时,他的老同学,那个以前远远不如他的王二,此刻正坐在KTV包间里打着手机,说“那个房地产的项目贷款,我们还可以再协商协商……” 他也免不了察觉,自己的全部精神生活──如果他年少时候的“愤青”气息还没有被国外的阳光彻底晒化的话──就是窝在某个中文论坛,发两句明天就要被版主当作垃圾清理掉的牢骚而已,而与此同时,他的某某朋友已经成了国内媒体上的 “专家学者”,在那些激动人心的关于“转型”的辩论中频频发言…… 不错,他的确,或最终会,住上美丽的房子。在经过那么多年辛辛苦苦地读书、胆战心惊地找工作之后,“一些梦”实现了。买了大房子,门外有草坪、草坪外有栅栏、栅栏里有花丛。可是,说到底,有一天,他在院子里浇花的时候,突然沮丧地意识到,这样的生活,不过是那曾经被他耻笑的农民理想“面朝黄土背朝天,老婆孩子热炕头”的海外版本而已。 那么,他到底还要些什么呢?生活里到底还有些什么比“面朝黄土背朝天,老婆孩子热炕头”更伟大更性感更美丽呢?更大的房子?他现在的房子已经大得可以闹鬼了。更正宗的夫妻肺片?说实话,出国这么多年,他已经对辣的不那么感冒了。更多的工资?那是当然,不过他下次涨工资的日子其实也不远了…… 说到底,他内心的隐隐作疼,与这一切“物质生活”都没有什么关系,他所不能忍受的,是“历史的终结”,是那种生活的“尽头感”,是曾经奔涌向前的时间突然慢下来、停下来、无处可去,在他家那美丽的院子里,渐渐化为一潭寂静的死水。窗外的草坪,那么绿,绿得那么持之以恒,那么兢兢业业,那么克尽职守,那么几十年如一日,简直就像是……死亡。 而国内的生活呢?虽然据说有很多腐败,有很多贫富差距,小孩子有做不完的作业,农民有跑不完的上访,工人在不停下岗,甚至据说还曾经有人在路上走着走着就给逮进去打死了,可是,对于有志青年,中国这个大漩涡,是一个多么大的“可能性”的矿藏:愤青有那么多东西可战斗,资青有那么多钞票可以赚,文青有那么多感情可以抒发──历史还远远没有抵达它的尽头,未来还坐在红盖头里面激发他的想象力,他还可以那么全力以赴地向它奔跑,并且从这全力以赴中感受到“意义”凛冽的吹拂。如果是这样,干嘛不回国算了?难言之痛,一回了之。 这时候,他又开始嗫嚅。他开始怀疑自己对国内的种种向往,也许只是“距离产生的美感”。他开始担心如果凑近了观察,会看到祖国脸上的麻子和粉刺。“毕竟,在中国创业,是要靠关系的,我又没有什么关系,回去也白回去。”他说。“这里再怎么不好,基本上还是一个凭本事和能力吃饭的地方,至少还有公平可言,不用平白无故受很多气。”他又说。 接着,他想到国内走到哪里人们都是一拥而上没人排队随地吐痰环境污染严重,他感到头疼。又想到国内那些衣衫褴褛的民工一天工作12个小时到年底竟然可能拿不到工资,他感到齿冷。还想到那些个被假药假酒假奶粉毒害的人们,因此又不可避免地感到胃疼。他越想越多,越想越疼,越想越害怕,最后不可避免地抵达了“文明”、“民主”、“法治”等光芒四射的高度。 于是他陷入了僵局。他一会儿想到国内张三李四王二的刺激生活,一会儿又想到了国外王二李四张三的安稳命运。国内的生活,他看不到上限,因而充满希望,但也看不到下限,因而特别危险;国外的生活,他看得到下限,因而感到安全,但也看得到上限,所以特别乏味。国内的生活像是买股票,可能升得快,也可能跌得快;而国外的生活像是定期存款,挣不到哪里去,却也亏不到哪里去。啊,海外的游子,一个个高学历、高收入、高素质的三高“白骨精”,就这样被逼成了成天喋喋不休自言自语的“祥林嫂”。 有一次回国,我和几个朋友吃饭,其中一个说“你回国吧,中国多复杂啊……”复杂,嗯,就是这个词,恰切,精确。对于一个有胃口的灵魂来说,“复杂”是多么基本的一种需要,而欧洲阳光下的郊区,美得那么纯粹,那么安静,对于习惯惹是生非的人来说,说到底是一种灾荒。 对“复杂”的向往,让我暗暗希望,自己能过一辈子东跑西窜、颠沛流离的生活。这个愿望,使我觉得,自己是多么贪婪的一个人。贪图安稳,又贪恋刺激,回不回国,不仅仅是一个“创业”的问题,甚至不仅仅是一个“文化”的问题,如果说这种贪婪是一种“犯贱”的话,我坚持要把它推卸到“娜拉的悲剧”这个哲学命题上去。 在历史的道路上,人们披荆斩棘、奋勇前进,可是到达了历史的终点之后,啊,站在欧洲的美丽风景里,我惊恐而又伤感地想,人们对那坎坷不平然而激荡人心的道路,又犯起了“思乡病”。 |
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祝楼主中秋节快乐
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我觉得也是
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【转帖】7旬老太在自家菜地被开发商活活铲死 内脏全破裂
2010年9月9日16时50分,湖北省襄樊市谷城县庙滩镇一七旬老太,因制止开发商非法强占自家菜地,在菜地被铲车司机的铲车活活铲死。老太当场右腿被铲断为三截、左臂被铲断为两截、鼻腔出血、一只耳朵被撕裂,在送往医院的途中就去世了。后经法医鉴定,老太太内脏全部破裂。 此前12天,8月29日,这家老爷子因为镇政府非法强征这块耕地,并被镇政府多次上门“做工作”,并受恶势力胁迫,气愤过度突发脑溢血去世。 不到半个月的时间内,两位花甲老人因为一块面积不到4分的菜地接连去世,对这个不幸的家庭造成了致命的打击。 由于惨剧是由镇政府非法征地,违法让地引起,受害人家庭要求严肃追究镇政府的行政责任和开发商的刑事责任。 事件的简要经过: 2009年6月,这块耕地被当地镇政府以建设法庭办公楼为名,胁迫老夫妇出让土地。在未办理任何手续的情况下,又被政府转手卖给房地产开发商搞开发。政府以建设公益设施为名、行商业开发之实。 2009年11月底,老爷子得知这个情况后,曾去当地政府反映情况,不同意出让土地,却遭到当地政府一个占姓副书记的训斥。此后,开发商又变本加厉,动用各种势力,上门施加压力。 老爷子去世后仅12天,镇政府不顾其家庭还沉浸在悲痛之中,纵容开发商开铲车来强行平整菜地。老太太惨死后,开发商公开扬言“压死一个老太太不就是十来万块钱的事吗!” 事发后,镇政府一直回避自己的行政责任,同时动用警力昼夜在被害者家门口监视。并于14日在网络上发布“关于庙滩‘9.9过失致人死亡’一案的简要通报”,表达了“案发当天,嫌疑人是临时被人以口头约定形式,雇请至案发地进行土地平整,方式为:用铲车的铁铲对已土地进行拖行平整,不存在蓄意和预谋,嫌疑人和死者之间并不相识,无任何怨仇”的言论,误导群众。 截至事件发生,镇政府仍然拿不出任何合法的土地使用审批手续。 |
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【转帖】Haigui's Dilemma
A sea turtle's swim back home may be long and treacherous. The open waters are filled with predators both humans and fish, and sometimes even the occasional oil spill. Yet they are not the only ones who struggle on their journey home. Sea turtles, also known as haigui, are the Chinese youth who have studied abroad and are returning back home to a different China. In a time when the job market is just recovering, these Chinese youth who were born in the late 80s come back home to a new China that seems just as tough to navigate as the dark, oil-slicked waters of the open sea. "It's very difficult to live in China now," said Guan Fang who studied in France for eight years. "People do things for money… There is a lot more fear here than when I left." Fang sees the current China as unstable grounds for this quickly developing country. She believes that many Chinese cannot sustain their lifestyles with the incomes they have. "The Chinese need to earn more money to give themselves assurance of their future and lifestyle…In France people know how to enjoy their lives. They attempt to make life more beautiful. Whereas, the lifestyle here is very expensive and the income they make cannot support their lifestyles." Fang works at a normal nine-to-six desk job where she toils as an assistant. Unhappy with her own career in China, she believes that it's hard for many Chinese students who have studied abroad to find rewarding jobs. "They want a job that's equal to their profile," said Fang. "Students who have come from abroad want higher salaries and better working conditions, and especially to work for a foreign company." Unremarkable However, there are those who do not see the worth in these students who put down hundreds of thousands for an oversea education. "I would say that at least 80 percent of these Chinese students who have studied abroad are simply unremarkable," said Rui Leow, who worked in the human resources department hiring for top Fortune 500 firms. Leow said many of these students remain unqualified despite the hefty educational price tag because of their weakness in adjusting to the Western culture or not making it into the top foreign universities. "Honestly, they just wanted to say, 'Hey, look at me, I have a Masters and I'm a liuxuesheng [a foreign student].'" She believes many of these students feel as if they have the right to better jobs just because they have studied abroad. However, that doesn't cut it for the current job market, Leow said. Many of those who have spent a fortune studying abroad come back home with little prospect for a stable or even desirable career choices. Yet the students think otherwise. "They think we are stupid for studying abroad," said Fang, "they only can think about economics and that's all they care about in the world. They don't care about the society or the world. They only want to have fun or to play. They don't take responsibility." Unlike many, Fang sees "guanxi" as a negative word that has handicapped China instead of opening doors. "In China it means you have to pay money for their dinner in order to get what you want," said Fang. "Chinese people are almost too realistic - they don't trust each other because they want to use each other to fulfill their own goals… Now it's about giving someone a gift so that they will give me a job. It's not real friendship, it's mostly for benefit." Reverse culture shock Others such as Ethan Sun, 26, who has studied abroad understood that the opportunity would give him the competitive edge that no other student his age could achieve. At the age of 17, Sun packed up his few belongings in China and started anew overseas. Now, 10 years later, Sun's eyes are tired and blood-shot. He's stressed from the studying for his financial exam. He is taking the exam so that he has "financial security" in case his future doesn't pan out the way he wants it to be. But China is not exactly the most monetarily secure place at the moment, he believes. "People want so much more these days," he said. "People want new cars and houses... China just isn't the same anymore." His study abroad left him with a conflicting image of the current China. "It's hard to readjust to the new world here," said Sun. Last month Sun visited his hometown in Zhengzhou, Henan Province where it is now filled with cars, sex shops and overwhelming price tags. Now when he walks into a mall he sees overpriced brands when before it was just local goods. "I see brands that have ridiculous price tags in a second tier city. That would be unimaginable years ago. But now people's consumption ability has grown," said Sun. Sun can precisely point out the cultural clashes that make him uneasy from the newest short-short fashion that would have been unthinkable years ago to expensive hobbies. "They seem to enjoy this feeling of ownership … people aren't buying these expensive watches to tell time but it's simply acquiring a new identity," said Sun. Big China However, there are others such as Ryan Wang who look past the problems in China and see opportunity. The white walls of his office are bare aside from a few books on his shelf. The windows overlooking the city are large, bringing in an abundance of sunlight into his empty office. From his large bay windows, one can see the vast landscape of the Beijing skyline. "One day I will own an even bigger office," Wang said. "I want to own an office in the Huamao tower," a high-end office building that costs 300,000 yuan ($44,000) a month. He is just 26 years old, yet he has achieved success by starting his own investment firm built upon his knowledge of foreign markets. "Ten years ago when I left China it was THAT small, but China has become THAT big. Now there are more educated people and more people who are getting rich," said Wang. Now he owns a new office on the 39th floor of the Jianwai SOHO building in the CBD area. Wang, Sun and Fang are among the generation of Chinese youth born in the 1980s who first grabbed at the opportunities of studying aboard after the economic reform in the late 70s. At the age of 17, these students began enrolling in universities abroad. During this time the few who could afford it, found their way abroad, some even hoping to come back to carry on their family businesses. However there are few like Wang who have achieved success. Wang was able to capitalize on his understanding of foreign markets from his time abroad. He recognized that the Chinese markets were ripe for the picking. "The Chinese market is controlled and the Chinese citizens have no choice. They have nothing else to invest and real estate is too expensive to the average Chinese citizen." Wang gives average people an opportunity at success with his knowledge of foreign markets and trading. Wang sees that in this new China anyone can be successful if he has the right knowledge. For these haigui, the long swim back home has been a struggle, some come back to a home that is completely destroyed. While others cannot adjust to their city's growing pollution problems among the many other social issues that are changing their habitats. Many are just trying to find a place and a position where they feel that they belong. Yet for some of these turtles, the future is just unfolding. http://www.globaltimes.cn/www/englis...09/569999.html |
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