Aug 14th, 2007, 23:37 | #1 |
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Should men in commited relationships watch porn?
Hi, I'm a 32 yr old female. My fiance and I have been together for 2 yrs. We have a good relationship, but he has been expressing his need to watch porn online or on TV when I'm not home, he says it's to relieve his stress...and sexual tension. I watch porn with him...I just don't understand why he has to watch it alone to cum. We have sex every night, and he says it's the best, he also tells me that I'm the most beautiful women he has ever seen. I have some self esteem problems I'm working on after battling an eating disorder...he said lot's of women let their boyfriends watch porn, and that I need help...I told him that this is ruining our relationship...he says I'm over reacting, am I? Please help me...anyone... thanks |
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Aug 15th, 2007, 01:17 | 只看该作者 #2 |
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a definately yes. it is normal for all men. just thinking hard, why, just why a man wants to seek for a women? we call that a nature instinct. so if he can go for you to meet this need, why, just why he can not go for others? the question is: what stops him to look for another woman? think hard, wack your brain, why? what? aha, you may say ,it is because of ethics!then, where does this ethics come from? normally, ethics comes from human social practice. what kind of practice ends up to produce this "only one spouse" ethics? think hard, you will stick your nose close to truth. and the truth is : it is a very normal instinct with no problem with ethics and doesn't mean anything close to unfaithful to love. |
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