Jun 4th, 2008, 11:29 | 只看该作者 #95 |
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Let me tell you a story about 4 Pang at daycare. Sorry I can not type Chinese at workplace. Last week, one of his teachers told me about 4 Pang. “He is a happy boy most of the time at daycare, but sometimes he is very sad.( The teacher showed me how 4 pang looked like). When somebody took his toys or books away, he was very sad and sometimes cried.” The teacher said “ I tell him to stand up at the moment when somebody took your toys away, you should say” no “to them.” The teacher said “I am working with him now how to communicate with others and express yourself.” I told the teacher “he does not look like this at home, he will fight with his sister if it is the similar case.” The teacher said “home environment is different with the school, just keep an eye on him”. I have though of this for some many days. |
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Jun 4th, 2008, 13:25 | 只看该作者 #96 |
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我这几天都在未笑笑补牙的事烦心,这今天来了才知道,沅沅自虐。 小孩子好多到了她这个年龄都这样的。 我说说我的对待防守,一开始笑笑会打自己的头,我看着急了就拉开他的手跟他说多打了会笨,要他听话才满足他的要求。但这效果不太好,他以后有什么想要的还会打自己的头。后来我就对他冷嘲热讽了,看到他打头,我就跟他说你打好了,反正疼的是他,不是我。我看我的电视,上我的电脑不理,几次下来他知道打自己白疼了,也不打了,反过来打我。我再跟他说你打我,我会疼,我更不会满足你的要求,一边凉快去。现在他不会打自己,也不会打我了。他的要求只要不过分我都会去满足他,小孩子有时的要求你看看能满足的就满足他吧,但在满足他之前要先跟他说好条件。 |
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