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旧 Aug 19th, 2009, 04:35     #1
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默认 家,在哪?咋恁遥远泥?

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旧 Aug 19th, 2009, 10:08   只看该作者   #2
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旧 Aug 19th, 2009, 10:12   只看该作者   #3
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good question...
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旧 Aug 19th, 2009, 21:53   只看该作者   #4
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都想,咋恁难泥?
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旧 Aug 19th, 2009, 22:01   只看该作者   #5
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默认 以理化情

家在心中
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以理化情
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旧 Aug 19th, 2009, 22:04   只看该作者   #6
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家在心中
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以理化情
理为何物?
玛雅,咋芥末难泥?偶大老粗,读8懂。
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旧 Aug 20th, 2009, 10:26   只看该作者   #7
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放不下,宇宙也不过是个大点的监狱而已
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旧 Aug 20th, 2009, 10:35   只看该作者   #8
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都想,咋恁难泥?
第一个买张票不就得了?
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旧 Aug 20th, 2009, 12:30   只看该作者   #9
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你可以把想说的说出来,然后可能有办法.
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旧 Aug 20th, 2009, 15:34   只看该作者   #10
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你可以把想说的说出来,然后可能有办法.
怎么解决?你是想做个go-between呢,还是准备舍身取义了?
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旧 Aug 20th, 2009, 16:54   只看该作者   #11
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怎么解决?你是想做个go-between呢,还是准备舍身取义了?
一般而言,上面两种方式都不见得有效.解决方案最终还是来自于问题自身
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旧 Aug 20th, 2009, 22:31   只看该作者   #12
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。。。解决方案最终还是来自于问题自身
谢谢71生关注,如果我没弄错的话,您是学心理学的吧?

我最大的烦恼就是, 我不明白为什么感情这事离我那么远?难道这就是命运,天意弄人吗?难道我渴望被人关爱不应该吗?
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旧 Aug 20th, 2009, 23:47   只看该作者   #13
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默认 接纳

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这是最好的回答!100分。
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旧 Aug 21st, 2009, 01:06   只看该作者   #14
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这是最好的回答!100分。
学会接纳,你就拥有一切!
偶脚的这不是放之4海皆准的真理。

就如有1个饥饿的人,没有最基本的食物,难道你去告诉他学会接受,不用吃东西就可以了吗? 人始终是人,不是铁不是钢,人需要最基本的生存条件。
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原来是为情所困啊?
关键你要敞开心扉啊,少说像本主题那样谋明其妙的话,多交朋友,豁达一些。。。。。
也可以请本坛那些热心的大妈大娘们帮忙, 跟她们多套近乎。

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我最大的烦恼就是, 我不明白为什么感情这事离我那么远?难道这就是命运,天意弄人吗?难道我渴望被人关爱不应该吗?
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我最大的烦恼就是, 我不明白为什么感情这事离我那么远?难道这就是命运,天意弄人吗?难道我渴望被人关爱不应该吗?
圈子过小,不要过于封闭
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老七你快争着眼睛掰啊,完了我就可以接着闭着眼睛掰了。。。
这我最在行
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老七你快争着眼睛掰啊,完了我就可以接着闭着眼睛掰了。。。
这我最在行
这得LZ把事情详细说完,才会有解决方案。我们只是听众,我们的办法一般不会对LZ有什么帮助,起码不会有直接的帮助,LZ在给大家说事的同时,根据大家的反应,会慢慢有自己的解决方案的。
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