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旧 Sep 27th, 2011, 05:24     #1
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默认 我们究竟要什么

看到身边的中国朋友纷纷将车由两田换成宝马,奔驰。房子由一房变成两三个房主。接下来还要怎样,去欧洲非洲玩。当物质需求达到一定满足,总有一天,我们会觉得还缺少什么,缺少的也是最重要的。
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旧 Sep 27th, 2011, 06:25   只看该作者   #2
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看到身边的中国朋友纷纷将车由两田换成宝马,奔驰。房子由一房变成两三个房主。接下来还要怎样,去欧洲非洲玩。当物质需求达到一定满足,总有一天,我们会觉得还缺少什么,缺少的也是最重要的。
最重要的是你得到的。

缺少的,那都是浮云。
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旧 Sep 27th, 2011, 08:40   只看该作者   #3
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最重要的是你得到的。

缺少的,那都是浮云。
是的,我们应该珍惜你现在已拥有的。我们缺少的是心灵的宁静。从李阳家暴到温哥华杀妻反映出当今人们处于一种躁动的状态,人生观价值观极度扭曲,那些事件的发生是必然的。在物质极大丰富的今天,心灵的空虚会让人变成魔鬼做出你无法控制的事来。
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旧 Sep 29th, 2011, 11:50   只看该作者   #4
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看到身边的中国朋友纷纷将车由两田换成宝马,奔驰。房子由一房变成两三个房主。接下来还要怎样,去欧洲非洲玩。当物质需求达到一定满足,总有一天,我们会觉得还缺少什么,缺少的也是最重要的。

有一点可以看到,基本上我们住什么房是由周围的NEIGHBOR决定的.什么样的房也会在什么样的区.其他的消费也会受周围朋友同事的影响.物质上享受容易满足,精神上的东西可难了.
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旧 Sep 30th, 2011, 12:32   只看该作者   #5
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不都是想要过的更好吗?

要到物质的说其实想要感情精神层面的;有个感情精神的说缺物质。

总之,欲望是无至境的。

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旧 Sep 30th, 2011, 12:45   只看该作者   #6
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want what we don't have! never satisfied with what we've already had!


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旧 Sep 30th, 2011, 12:55   只看该作者   #7
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不都是想要过的更好吗?

要到物质的说其实想要感情精神层面的;有个感情精神的说缺物质。

总之,欲望是无至境的。


"要到物质的说其实想要感情精神层面的" YES,BUT有个感情精神应该不会"太"追求物质.欲望是无至境的 但也不是没代价啊.

要过的更好,物质上容易体现,别人也容易看见,情精神层面就完全只有自己知道了.
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旧 Sep 30th, 2011, 14:14   只看该作者   #8
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"要到物质的说其实想要感情精神层面的" YES,BUT有个感情精神应该不会"太"追求物质.欲望是无至境的 但也不是没代价啊.

要过的更好,物质上容易体现,别人也容易看见,情精神层面就完全只有自己知道了.
这是我最近听了个故事的感慨。
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旧 Sep 30th, 2011, 17:06   只看该作者   #9
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这是个很深奥的问题
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因为得到某些东西的同时,你又失去了另一些东西

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环顾一下周围, 感觉了解自己的人已经变的慢慢的不怎么了解了, 自己了解的亲人和朋友也变的疏远了, 活的越来越孤单, 而且会感觉自己正在处于某种未知的状况,越陷越深, 慢慢的就真正的失去方向了。。。。

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马斯洛的需要说可以参考一下,有点借鉴作用。
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因为你并没有真正地倾听过自己的内心。你到低最想要的是什么???是爱,是事业成功,或者别的什么??拼命挣钱的人,心里并不是最想要那个的;当然也不排除真有这样的人,比如守财奴。你只有得到了你最想要的,你的心才会有愉悦,才会有平静,才会有幸福感。
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其实就是要别人没有的,就自己有,狗屎都行。
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那你说说,怎么倾听内心?
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http://www.chinasoul.org/
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旧 Dec 5th, 2011, 09:12   只看该作者   #19
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因为得到某些东西的同时,你又失去了另一些东西
这,奏是传说中的平衡!
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这,奏是传说中的平衡!
现实社会所造成的这种无法避免的所谓平衡,其实是我们人类贪婪的本性在作怪。

我们不管要什么,或得到了什么,其中包括物质和精神的,其实都是在追求一种心理上我们难以意识到的平衡,此平衡的结果可造成内心某种程度的满足,只有当内心达到一定安宁和平静时。追求的欲望才会逐渐湮灭。
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