Jun 24th, 2004, 16:28 | #1 |
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My husband forgot my birthday today. I am so sad. What should I do? Maybe nothing. That's my lifestyle. No romance, no flowers, no care. I just want to divoice, divoice. I am crying for myself. I do not want to be here any more. Where shoudl I go? China was good, not my destination. Canada is good, not my home. |
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Jun 24th, 2004, 18:48 | 只看该作者 #2 |
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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by su_fj2003: My husband forgot my birthday today. I am so sad. What should I do? Maybe nothing. That's my lifestyle. No romance, no flowers, no care. I just want to divoice, divoice. I am crying for myself. I do not want to be here any more. Where shoudl I go? China was good, not my destination. Canada is good, not my home. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE> 这女孩子吧, 有时候也真是的, 你提前两天假装忽然记起, 提醒他你的生日到了, 问他会给你买什么不就行了.非的让他自觉, 这可倒好,出事儿了不是? |
对于完美的追求已经超越了吹毛求屁, 精益求精的程度已经达到了画蛇添足的境界,虽偶能得手,但距离纯熟的画龙点睛尚有一步之遥。
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Jun 24th, 2004, 21:06 | 只看该作者 #4 |
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赞成天然JJ or MM的建议! 顺便告诉楼主,这点小事情不要太在意,也许你老公近期工作很忙,真的忘了呢?老夫老妻的,就给他一个机会吧.也许他现在正在后悔呢,发愁怎么哄你这个LP高兴呢. <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by 天然: 有些男生就是不自觉。 对于这种男生,LP第一的浪漫主义教育要日日讲,月月讲,时时讲! 对于那些木鱼脑袋,暗示是不行的。要明示。 在生日前一天不妨与朋友大事庆祝,最好夜不归。 等他焦急的问起,就作轻描淡写状,说,这是庆祝生日呀,今天是小聚,明天还有位男士要单独约会呢。 那木鱼也该开窍了吧? 如果再不开窍,那你直接去约会得了。 JJ可千万别为这等小事想不开,以后的生日还多的是呢。够他好好补尝,别便宜了他。 <HR></BLOCKQUOTE> |
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Jun 24th, 2004, 21:48 | 只看该作者 #6 |
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呵呵,试想一下,如果我是你,当时可能也会生气伤心的! 不过就是因为你们是夫妻,在一起相处久了,他才觉得和你不是什么外人,有些时候就难免忽略了一些事情和你的感受! 所以我们可以转念一想,假如他要是给你很隆重的庆祝一下生日,而等他过生日的时候,你再为他买些礼物,似乎感觉又把什么东西还回去了,没有什么惊喜和心意。反而现在不是更好,让你有机会在他生日的时候给他一个惊喜和意外,让他深刻的感觉你很在乎他,连他的生日你都不会忘记,也许这样会更加加深你们的感情,我觉得其实平淡有时候也未必不是幸福!! 楼主姐姐,你说呢,我相信你是幸福的女人!! |
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 我爱你,可是我不敢说,我怕我说了马上就会死去; 我不怕死,我怕我死了,再也没有人像我一样爱你! |
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Jun 25th, 2004, 15:03 | 只看该作者 #8 |
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Today I am fine. However I still think my life is crappy. I am overwhelmed by my graduate study here. One more step is hard for me. No sex life, no passion, and no deep love. Heart is the fire of organ, right? I still think I have the responsibility for my family. Although my life is plain, I still want my husband to be around me. I do not mean to hurt him. If possible I will write in Chinese here. English words could not express my feelings. |
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