Sep 15th, 2007, 19:45 | #1 |
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【求助】死与离婚 我选哪个?
今天和劳工吵了一架,自己觉得冤得很。在劳工三番五次地说让我去死后,我真是伤透了心,在外面砖了2小时,出去是真得响想着要死了算了, 可不知为什么又回了家。有好多放心不下,有孩子还有父母。 于是下了决心,一定要离婚!可又想,离了婚对我来说和死了也差不多。我这个人死心眼,觉着这辈子就只跟一个男人。这种根深蒂固的思想害苦了我,他拿我不当人,也跟我的这个想法有关,我也自己看不起自己。所以死了或许更好一些。 孩子在楼上哭。我心里真不是滋味。也不知为什么要在这里法帖。 我知道这个贴子不应该法到这里,但基本上宝宝论坛是我偶尔浏览的唯一论坛,希望姐妹们能原谅。 |
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Sep 15th, 2007, 19:50 | #2 |
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我知道任何人都帮不了我做这个选择题。所以我放弃了打我朋友的电话。不知道为什么觉得想法到这了。希望不会影响你们的心情。不喜欢的就当没看见吧。抱歉!
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Sep 16th, 2007, 13:27 | #6 |
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Sep 16th, 2007, 13:41 | #9 |
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Sep 16th, 2007, 14:02 | #10 |
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楼上各位,很抱歉我真的 没有时间一一回你们的帖子了,非常感谢你们的关心, 看了你们的帖子,我想我不会傻到去死了,动不动就寻死的人我以前也看不起的,想不到我就是其中的一员。 有时候鬼迷了心窍, 觉得死了就解脱了。我就是 没有学会怎样控制自己的情绪。 我劳工实际上是很优秀的一个人,我们结婚前的三年里,他基本上每天一封情书写给我,我也曾经有过自己的骄傲和幸福的。 婚后我们也有磕磕碰碰的, 但还算挺美满,我以为我追求到了我要的东西。但关键就是象楼上说得我没有了自我,我除了孩子劳工, 眼里没有别的。一天天过过来,我就成了劳工的保姆和出气筒。其实就算受点气, 我也认了,可是我控制不了事态的发展,就想昨天,本来快快乐乐的,一家人正畅想着未来, 我劳工就大发雷霆。说出了伤透我心的话。我不知该怎么办了! |
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to everybody
Thank you all for the valuable thoughts you put here I am so shocked to see so many posting here, During I was reading all these wonderful warm words, I could not help my tears. It is so kind of you guys, thanks a lot. |
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Sep 19th, 2007, 14:04 | #12 |
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To explain why I wrote in English
I am working right now, and I want to apologize that i typed in English. I leave home at 6 am in the morning and get back home at 6 Pm in the afternoon everyday. All Mom know that 3~4 hours is not enough for spending with kids. so I never had a chance to use the computer at night except weekend. Sorry~~~ |
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Thank you for your understanding
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I lost again. |
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Sep 19th, 2007, 14:12 | #15 |
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Thank you for gift
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Sep 19th, 2007, 14:16 | #16 |
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Thank you. I am happy to hear what you are saying
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Sep 19th, 2007, 14:19 | #17 |
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Shame on me! I have no " Ben ling" at all
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Sep 19th, 2007, 14:23 | #18 |
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The problem is: it is not like that if you feel like that you are “奶黄包子 ” and then you will be a “ 奶黄包子”. at least, I can't. I am not that confident. By the way I love cooking. |
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Could not agree more!
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I lost after all these years hard working only because I was too negative. The good thing is that I lost this time but I won’t lose the lesson. Thank you for your help. |
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