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Lincesl · Mar 4th, 2006, 01:13

记得看过一本新移民杂志<<new comer>>, 作者好象是一个Srilanka妇女把整个移民来加后的心情写得非常彻底.好奇----irritate---emotion adjustment---irritate--life improvement---culture shock haunt,觉得这真是移民的一个正常的心理周期,说实在的,如果我们没有什么真正的技术背景,在这个地方想要稳定发展,没有个五或者六年是不现实的.新年时回了一趟国,舅妈的一句话让我很受感动,说在外不容易,没有个六七年是不行的.当时令我诧异的是,一个上了年纪的老太太,居然说出的话能让我共鸣.我当时真是怔在那里好一会儿才回过神.
不过话说回来,我倒没有楼主那样的光辉过去,我家住东北小城,回去后让我彻底地认识了一番,冬天真冷,房间里真不舒服,比加拿大糟多了,加拿大的老百姓还是比国内的老百姓生活要好很多的.

Lincesl · Mar 7th, 2006, 01:41

immigrants are suffering from stresses mentally and emotionally, based on your info you posted here, I do believe everybody should continuously and consistantly try to find stress solutions not only in financial, acdemic, but also in personal stress. The only thing I can say here is that try to figure out how to reduce your stress and avoid to be stressful. For example: chant, make more friends, play the poker, yelling to the lake on the beach, go to community center and fitness club(do not worry about the fee, it will be on your hubby's bill.). Go to ACC watch the hockey game(even in some community centers on weekend, there are lot of youth hockey games), NBA game, go to the CN tower, museum, ontario science center....................I even think you can go to Disney for fun.............

Anyway, do not give up!!! hold the line, do not be depressed!
中国有句话叫: 站直了,别趴下!!!

Mar 4th, 2006, 01:13	#1
Lincesl Senior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 413	记得看过一本新移民杂志<<new comer>>, 作者好象是一个Srilanka妇女把整个移民来加后的心情写得非常彻底.好奇----irritate---emotion adjustment---irritate--life improvement---culture shock haunt,觉得这真是移民的一个正常的心理周期,说实在的,如果我们没有什么真正的技术背景,在这个地方想要稳定发展,没有个五或者六年是不现实的.新年时回了一趟国,舅妈的一句话让我很受感动,说在外不容易,没有个六七年是不行的.当时令我诧异的是,一个上了年纪的老太太,居然说出的话能让我共鸣.我当时真是怔在那里好一会儿才回过神. 不过话说回来,我倒没有楼主那样的光辉过去,我家住东北小城,回去后让我彻底地认识了一番,冬天真冷,房间里真不舒服,比加拿大糟多了,加拿大的老百姓还是比国内的老百姓生活要好很多的.
Lincesl Senior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 413

Mar 7th, 2006, 01:41	#2
Lincesl Senior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 413 声望: 0	Do not break your heart! immigrants are suffering from stresses mentally and emotionally, based on your info you posted here, I do believe everybody should continuously and consistantly try to find stress solutions not only in financial, acdemic, but also in personal stress. The only thing I can say here is that try to figure out how to reduce your stress and avoid to be stressful. For example: chant, make more friends, play the poker, yelling to the lake on the beach, go to community center and fitness club(do not worry about the fee, it will be on your hubby's bill.). Go to ACC watch the hockey game(even in some community centers on weekend, there are lot of youth hockey games), NBA game, go to the CN tower, museum, ontario science center....................I even think you can go to Disney for fun............. Anyway, do not give up!!! hold the line, do not be depressed! 中国有句话叫: 站直了,别趴下!!!
Lincesl Senior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 413 声望: 0