Feb 17th, 2004, 09:47 | #1 |
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最近身边朋友事故颇多,心里感触不已。转眼婚姻已至七年之关,不禁回顾。激情早已消退,磨合已告段落, 痛苦与甜蜜并行,唯有血肉亲情相连,你中有我,我中有你, 如果硬行拆开,必是血淋淋的伤口残肢,不知何日才能愈合。 所以啊,当偶运一段怦然心动的恋情之前, 慎思啊慎思。只是局中的人却“身不由己”, 也曾痛苦挣扎,也曾试图抗拒,却最终堕入那违常之恋, 唏嘘不已。 原来有一种爱,可以让人放弃理智, 可以如饮鸩酒,欲罢不能。。。 所以既然爱了,必得有勇气承担所有的后果,与前半生的彻底决裂,日复一日的歉疚,以及世俗的道德评判。。。惟有如此,方能对自己有个交代,方能理直气壮地对自己说:我爱他。爱可以退色, 却决没有退缩与欺骗。 自问不是勇敢的人, 承受不了感情上的伤痛,所以一直小心得呵护珍惜我的所有,一个家,和一份不轻的责任。。。 |
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Feb 20th, 2004, 13:07 | 只看该作者 #11 |
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第八个吧 . seven-year itch: a feeling of disappointment, unhappiness, regret or dissatisfaction with one's marriage and that is believed to be disappear after seven years. <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by good fairy: 七年之痒是指第七个年头,还是指满了七年后的第八个年头啊? http://hometown.aol.com/mybagofjems/...rplefairy.jpeg 杏花村馆酒旗风。水溶溶,扬残红。野渡舟横,杨柳绿阴浓。望断江南山色远,人不见,草连空。 夕阳楼外晚烟笼。粉香融,淡眉峰。记得年时,相见画屏中,只有关山今夜月,千里外,素光同<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> |
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Feb 22nd, 2004, 09:38 | 只看该作者 #13 |
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You remind me that my marrige is almost 7 years old as well. My wife is an endless book because she always shows me something new, nicely. But it's also because that book is not only for me to read, but for me to write as well. Aalthough she doesn't like most of what I try to write. My wife is just like part of me. Interestingly, I had experience of getting bored of being me before, for a couple of years something. But by time, growing up, I found a new me and learned I can always change as I like. I haven't got bored with myself ever yet...until next time. |
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Mar 1st, 2004, 19:32 | 只看该作者 #18 |
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很有感触.<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by 叮叮: <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> 只想要一个安静的生活,每天,在你身边,不亲密,也不厌倦,就是一日三餐。。。<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> 好好。<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> |
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