Oct 27th, 2004, 12:08 | #1 |
Senior Member
注册日期: Jul 2004
帖子: 484
|
CHINESE, Why are you guys make me F**King SAD.
Heard a few more Romanians join into the team just because my lead is a Romanian. Heard a lot of philippines join into a tax team in the bank because the lead of that team is Philippinian. The only thing I heard from my people is Never working under chinese lead if you are a chinese. Never expect chinese can introduce his own kind to the possible openings. I heard so many chinese leads say they are not going to give any chances to his own pople. Faint, even dogs know unit the pack will strong and survive, but not us. I will be swear here to myself, if in my life I can't help my people, I will go to hell forever. What is "Networking". You can get 10 tough interviews but failed of geting a job. And finally get one job without any interview from someone who know you. This is the true Canada. No matter you are skilled or not. Unit people, we survive, Separate, we also can survive but much harder. I never believe that If we can not help each other by our own kind , the other people will repect us and help us. Please remember this. |
独在异乡为异客,中国人要帮中国人。
|
|
|
Oct 27th, 2004, 13:09 | 只看该作者 #2 | |
Senior Member
注册日期: Jul 2004
帖子: 582
声望: 37
|
Not talking about with Leads, during my job seeking, I can feel some interviewers who are chinese are kind and "may be" helpful. But I dont expect much. Coz people "帮你是人情 不帮你是本分". All depends on ones qualifications. As far as the time when i can be helpful to siblings, I will do my best but without losing the necessary fairness basics. 引用:
|
|
|
Oct 28th, 2004, 12:37 | 只看该作者 #16 | |
spring
注册日期: Oct 2004
住址: Toronto
帖子: 529
声望: 156194
|
引用:
相信你也有华人朋友,祝你今后顺利 |
|
|
Oct 28th, 2004, 15:28 | 只看该作者 #18 |
Member
注册日期: Jul 2004
帖子: 61
声望: 61
|
国人的家庭观念差的远,人情和道理?
在加拿大,我们身边除了黑人就是印巴人最多。黑人不讲了,最差。 印巴人,我们普遍瞧不起的,有咖喱味,喜欢使坏,偷懒摸滑。但是深入他们的生活里,我们发现他们家族观念强过国人。就像他们自己说的,结婚观礼时亲戚朋友超过两千人。他们极少离婚的。 他们目标明确,团结对外。尽管他们自己也互相挤兑。也会跟我们华人投诉自己人的劣性。但是在升职,加薪,培训,在一切能实现群体利益的机会上,绝对不让外族人。想尽一切办法阻止你,把他们自己人的偷懒说成聪明。把我们华人的勤劳当成愚笨。因为他们依靠团结把持了从质检到货运到保安到管理层的各个职位。他们管自己人叫my people.处处行使保护。我的super多次跟我讲,你要帮别人,别人才有可能帮你。这是嫌我只帮中国人,要我帮他们印巴人干活。我们要投诉时,发现都是人家的people.投诉都赢不了。 问一下在自己领域里做到super一级的中国同胞,有没有自己人在身边呢?想没想过有可能的事实呢?当每个人都被反面的事例搞的戒备重重时,中国人的凝聚力去哪里找呢?华人总体的就不提了,各地域价值观不同。单单一个公司,一个小群体内,家丑不外扬的事恐怕都找不到吧?洋人不屑于踩我们,美国人到中国去,大老远看到美国同胞,兴高采烈的招呼。印巴人抱团我们踩不了,人家各处都有庙宇,周末有条件都集会。中国人面对面走过,都当对方是假的,所以国人只有个人奋斗成功的例子。这些人被layoff时,有保他们的吗? 多数中国人的一己私欲超越了一切,夫妻,兄弟,集体,民族,全都可以不顾吧? 人家说,帮你是人情,不帮你是道理,冷冷的甩给我这话的是我第一个华人老板。谁叫我们找不到人情,又不能只靠自己的实力挤入主流呢?先花点时间精力甚至金钱搞点networking.多认几个外族干亲戚更加好!至少layoff的名单里你是最后几个。 想想国内官僚的大小领导班子呼风唤雨,老百姓也三五成群的,大事成不了,吆喝一嗓子还有人和。再想想这地球另一边,一个个行单影只的被自己弟兄严防的贼一样的拼命找工的我们。人情和道理,我们该不该讲?该对谁讲? 除了自己的祖国,这是我到的第二个外国,可是中国人在外就是这样,总是做亲者痛,仇者快的事。我亲身体验,这不是某些人说的个别人的表现。何况我只是个累伯,与人无争尚且受到没来由的打击。那些想找专业的大虾,困难可想而知。 好久没挨砖了,上来刺激一下。 |
|
Oct 28th, 2004, 15:57 | 只看该作者 #19 | |
Senior Member
注册日期: Jul 2004
帖子: 484
声望: 39616
|
Support, We should unite and we can. Most of us have pretty good education background, and in the team our people always do the best and hardest assignments. I see them all show the best tolerance to the bad people who mess up with them. (Here, maybe the language skill is the biggest drawback). But unfortunately, in Toronto you have to be nice to nice people and tough to tough people in order to get a fair life. Otherwise, you will be squeezed to death (Sorry, I don't believe human being by nature is "Shan") So, Unite, we strong, Scattered we weak; If all of us put this in our mind, our fate will be much better. 引用:
|
|
|
Oct 28th, 2004, 16:53 | 只看该作者 #20 | |
Senior Member
注册日期: Jul 2004
帖子: 1,469
声望: 298454
|
you thought who you are? chinese? ok, forget about it, no way to fulfill your goal. it's a team work, even one single person go with a different way, you fail, but right now, one hundred chinese have 99 different way, how you can do it? 引用:
|
|
|