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旧 Jun 12th, 2010, 12:25     #1
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This book provides us many practical ways, including heart advice on helping the dying. It is worth to learn that how to look on person who comes to a close. Look at the dying person in front of you and think of that person as just like you, with the same needs, the same fundamental desire to be happy and avoid suffering, the same loneliness, the same fear of the unknown, the same secret areas of sadness, the same half-acknowledged feelings of helplessness. To my opinion, this method not only use for dying people, but can be used to the social life. Do not do to others what you don't want to be done to you. There will be less conflict between people if we understand this. It is so necessary to help people in the last moment correct their mistakes and cure their suffering. Even at the very end of a life, the mistakes of a life can be undone.

Everything in the book about caring for the dying could be summed up in two words: love and compassion. What is compassion? It is not simply a sense of sympathy or caring for the person suffering, or a sharp clarity of recognition of their needs and pain, it is also a sustained and practical determination to do whatever is possible and necessary to help alleviate their suffering. So our first response on seeing someone suffer becomes not mere pity, but deep compassion. We feel for that person respect and even gratitude, because we now know that whoever prompts us to develop compassion by their suffering is in fact giving us one of the greatest gifts of all, because they are helping us to develop that very quality we need most in our progress toward enlightenment. That is why we say in Tibet that the beggar who is asking you for money, or the sick old woman wringing your heart, may be the buddhas in disguise, manifesting on your path to help you grow in compassion and so move towards buddhahood.
Oh really?

The only question with wealth is, what do you do with it? - John D. Rockefeller
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旧 Jul 24th, 2010, 01:42     #2
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老姚真是明白人。
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旧 Jul 27th, 2010, 13:26     #3
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嘿嘿,说得好,不过要补充一点:尤其是那个“MP商”堪称华丰一绝。这不,您老都飘飘欲仙当上情商智商评论员了~~~~~只是也有很多不适应者却像吃了马肉一样
你嫉恨了吧?
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旧 Jul 27th, 2010, 13:39     #4
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Please pay attention to the first sentence.

"I can not stop think of" or I can not stop thinking of ...
语法错误多了去了。您单挑一句出来有嘛用啊?

而且这就是一比较劣质的读后感,纯粹地重复引用,即没有自己想法也没有独特见解,跟我小学五年级水平差不多。

Compassion是个拉丁语词汇,com=cum (with, 拉丁文前缀),passion=patient (one who suffers),意思为:to suffer together with。因此那一整段都是废话。
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旧 Jul 27th, 2010, 18:32     #5
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你说的对,猫还是不能装文人,猫当土匪最在行~~
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你俩怎么啦?有过一段情还是一夜情?现在恨得那么深啊~~
上下文都没看清楚就气急败坏了。
有仇必报,你还真是属猫的。“Do not do to others what you don't want to be done to you.” 合着你也就是完成作业呀。
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旧 Jul 27th, 2010, 22:37     #6
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啥有仇必报,小浪浪是我哥们儿,我报啥仇啊?
哦,浪浪。
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旧 Jul 27th, 2010, 22:42     #7
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有恨的价值吗?


猫用并不高明的语法就可以让老外一个个拜倒在她的石头裙下。可见其功力之高已经到达PARAMOUNT的地步。而WIKI呢, 表面门清一套一套的,其实情商智商都远不如猫


有这可能的话,早学你的做法, 不回贴了。:tongue...

这要问你自己呀。我夸老姚,逗锅盖,你酸个啥?没人搭理你难受得上蹿下跳了?

美丽猫可是画风一绝,属于短嘴鳄样的濒临绝种的珍惜物种,我自然甘拜下风,真心的。
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旧 Jul 27th, 2010, 22:47     #8
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瞧,猫猜得还是有根据的吧,你叫的多亲热啊,前面还加个性感的语气词,猫都从来没这么叫过我哥们儿~~
不敢当,我不过拾了你的牙慧。
瞧你俩这劲,别人还真插不进缝儿7。
一个为了另一个不回贴(但是忍不住还是回了),一个小浪浪小浪浪地喊,不好意思哦,犯了你忌讳了,这是你对他特别的称呼是吗?下回一定注意。
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