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旧 Aug 31st, 2010, 21:51     #1
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默认 研究称脸皮厚的人更长寿


俗话说:“没心没肺,活着不累”,一是说傻里傻气、糊糊涂涂活着,就没有活得太累的感觉;二是不过分的要脸面,善做凡人,就能活得寿命长。这两句俗语,我觉得都有一定道理。
  人要长寿,脸皮就应该厚一点。就是做了坏事,犯了错误,也不要自己跟自己过不去。多少人因脸面上过不去,甚至自杀。在人生路上,谁也难免光做好事不做坏事,就看能不能做了坏事能否接受教训,由坏人变成好人了。“人要脸,树要皮”,本来这是做人的美德,但不能过头,过分的要脸面,有时也会害了自己,再说也不一定做得完全正确。

  人不要脸,就是不要对健康有害的脸面。

  活着被人看得低一点,由官变成平民也好,由富翁变成穷光蛋也好,为了保证健康,就得有点“卧薪尝胆”的精神,不要因为顾没有用处的脸面,而毁了自己的生命。要达到这个目的,我认为应做到以下四点:

  ①泼辣一点。人活的泼泼辣辣,少一些遇事羞羞答答,就能在生活中打开局面,在社会上干好一番事业,不但生活上富裕,身体也能健健康康。特别是女人,凡泼辣者的人都过得较好,活得长远而幸福。

  ②潇洒一点。把心扉敞开,想怎么乐就怎么乐。不要自己约束自己,有的老人穿新衣不敢大胆地亮相,新的穿在里面,旧的套在外面,这就是不够潇洒的表现。有了钱,吃好穿好玩好,我觉得没有什么毛病,何乐而不为呢!大大方方地干事,潇潇洒洒的活动,这应是日常生活的态度。

  ③羞耻感少一点。就是从封建思想的圈子中跳出来,不要羞于参加社会上的某些活动,如跳舞、男女交友,正正派派地做事,不怕有人反对说坏话,更不要自己产生羞耻感,而造成精神不佳,导致疾病,损害健康。

  ④脸皮厚一点。我们生活在一个复杂的社会里,各种各样的人都有,做每一件事也许能遇到麻烦或阻力,或者还有嫉妒者,甚至会被攻击谩骂,因此就不要太顾及脸面,脸皮就要厚一点。不然就会心里不痛快,事业干不好,甚至中断,自然也会损害健康。

  人到了“不要脸”的地步,还怕什么?有了这样一种精神,不但能干大事业,还能保证自己的身体健康。
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早就研究,要成就霸业就得厚黑,那个厚就是这个意思。要长寿也得经得起打击,这也是厚,实际是心理健康,意志坚强的表现。林黛玉就活不长,刘姥姥就容易活的长也是同样道理。
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有人天生脸皮就不薄,不在意别人怎么说。。。
这好像很难学会

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旧 Feb 21st, 2011, 23:14   只看该作者   #5
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看来学会厚脸皮好处多多。
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俗话说:“没心没肺,活着不累”,一是说傻里傻气、糊糊涂涂活着,就没有活得太累的感觉;二是不过分的要脸面,善做凡人,就能活得寿命长。这两句俗语,我觉得都有一定道理。
  人要长寿,脸皮就应该厚一点。就是做了坏事,犯了错误,也不要自己跟自己过不去。多少人因脸面上过不去,甚至自杀。在人生路上,谁也难免...
有点道理,中国的越王勾践,日本的德川家康,如果还要脸面的话早就痛痛快快地自杀了
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旧 Feb 26th, 2011, 10:57   只看该作者   #7
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俗话说:“没心没肺,活着不累”,一是说傻里傻气、糊糊涂涂活着,就没有活得太累的感觉;二是不过分的要脸面,善做凡人,就能活得寿命长。这两句俗语,我觉得都有一定道理。
  人要长寿,脸皮就应该厚一点。就是做了坏事,犯了错误,也不要自己跟自己过不去。多少人因脸面上过不去,甚至自杀。在人生路上,谁也难免...
说得很对!但也很难做到。
家长要对小孩在这方面引导。我意识到这点时,我的孩子已大了。我自己就是太敏感,我孩子也是。我孩子可能先于我发现这个问题,他教我不要事事都太在意别人的想法,活得 太累了。但自己是很难做到不在意的,很难很难。所以家长不能一味的夸孩子要求孩子事事最优等等,会导致孩子很在意自己的一切都做得是否最好,很在意别人对自己的认可,会很敏感的。
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旧 Feb 26th, 2011, 23:10   只看该作者   #8
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有点道理,中国的越王勾践,日本的德川家康,如果还要脸面的话早就痛痛快快地自杀了
项羽脸皮就太薄了,如果有勾践那样的脸皮,不定谁定天下呢。
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旧 Feb 27th, 2011, 18:03   只看该作者   #9
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默认 自杀的全薄,

好死不如赖活着的都厚是吗.
有点厚黑的味道哈.
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坏人通常比好人更长寿。
坏人做坏事,问心无愧;偶然做了好事,沾沾自喜。
好人做好事,理所当然;做了不好的事,多有自责。
每一个自责,就少活几天。
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考证癖来了 标题一个“研究称”,通篇没见“研究”在哪里。

听惯风的温柔,听惯风的怒号,就连他自己的梦也容易忘掉。
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怪不得,现在脸皮厚的人越来越多。
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项羽脸皮就太薄了,如果有勾践那样的脸皮,不定谁定天下呢。
完全不记得吾曾经用小刺扎过项羽啊, 怎么了, 他也自杀了?

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坏人通常比好人更长寿。
坏人做坏事,问心无愧;偶然做了好事,沾沾自喜。
好人做好事,理所当然;做了不好的事,多有自责。
每一个自责,就少活几天。
核心就是我们每个人都要争取做坏人,越坏生活越幸福。
比如说吧,生活中那些骗人的,过得都不错。
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旧 Dec 3rd, 2011, 19:20   只看该作者   #16
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完了。看得我头皮发麻。我是彻底没有长寿的希望了
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旧 Dec 3rd, 2011, 19:28   只看该作者   #17
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比如说吧,生活中那些骗人的,过得都不错。 -------我觉的也是。“坏人”一般都比“好人”活的好,活的有滋味。并且还比“好人”活得更象个”好人“
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旧 Dec 3rd, 2011, 19:30   只看该作者   #18
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现实中,如果那些好人敢戳穿坏人的把戏的化,你看那些坏人不把这些好人说得更象坏人才怪!!!!
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