Jul 25th, 2012, 11:19 | #1 |
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我也一样哦,我第7年,老板第五个。 这个今年三月份上任,我们有一年多没老板,(向大老板汇报)。 也许他能做长吧,这里搞人的关系是主要的,业绩过的去就行吧。 其实看多了,发现说没有种族偏见,歧视不太可能。白人一般还是相信白人。棕色人种还是和棕色人种混。从我们历时一年多的几轮选老板也可见端倪。 |
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Jul 25th, 2012, 17:21 | #2 |
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Jul 25th, 2012, 17:35 | #3 |
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比如说:你家水管子堵了,我观察到是一般中国人会找中国人,洋人找洋人。 你会找你的白人同事帮你修水找白人管吗? 或者次类事情:请人从美国带东西什么的。 当然如果你说我花钱请人就是另外一回事了。很多人是自己修,或者请有经验的朋友,这个朋友,不般不太会是一起吃中饭的白人。多办是"自己人"。例外当然有,我说的是一搬情况。 |
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Jul 25th, 2012, 17:48 | #4 |
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最后,我当然希望你们大多地区有更多的中国人进入高级管理层 或者自己把事业做大。所以最好这只是"西部想象"的现象。 如果你说你没兴趣,这话可以有各种理解,再说下去就没意思了。 |
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Jul 25th, 2012, 18:22 | #6 |
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Jul 25th, 2012, 18:23 | #7 |
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I didn't say there is no exception. In your case, it is kind of special, you married to a white guy, so your environment is more related with western culture than average Chinese immigrant(first generation). and I didn't mentioned skin color, I more focus on culture and the way of thinking. people came here in their earlier age( in their early 20s) or got their university degree here might adopt to western society more easily (again, generally). Usually we are more being recognized by someone who has similar value and thinking. Back to my comments above, from my observation of the process they chose candidate, they tend to chose the one who has same background, same education and of course same value. I think some candidates showed more experience and enthusiasm than others but just because they are not their group, so they were declined. Last, I don't mean we can not be successful. I mean NORMALLY, we have to put more effort than white people to succeed. There is a guy in our office. He is from HK and was sent to here when he was 15. He tried so hard ( I think), he read a book called "How Canadians think", he married a white girl and always hangs out with his wife's family. He criticizes Chinese government always, exactly follow what western media says. He is recognized by them now. What I want to express here is : I believe if you want you can succeed at least you can pretend something, but not as easy as local people. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you criticize Chinese government. Thank you. 此帖于 Jul 26th, 2012 03:10 被 _虫二 编辑。 |
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当然,语言足够好,知识面足够宽,了解各国历史文化,也能交到其他总族的朋友。反正人性还是相通的。 我就是表达这么一个意思,您要是正好语言足够好,知识面足够宽,了解各国历史文化,或是取了/嫁了其他总族,当然也可以交很多朋友,不过我觉得不够代表性。 |
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Jul 26th, 2012, 11:27 | #14 |
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Jul 26th, 2012, 12:21 | #17 |
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Jul 26th, 2012, 13:03 | #20 |
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真是这样。我以前特别为我们民族的聪明勤奋骄傲。后来一分析,我们是不得不如此啊! 总得有条活路把!我也别看不起人家了,人家有人家的活路。
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