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mr.money · Mar 10th, 2004, 06:03

Loser is looser, winner is winner. It does not matter where they are. Try it if you can, otherwise just stay where you are now, that will make you feel better.

pseudo · Mar 10th, 2004, 08:22

It depends on what's your husband's plan: stay here to find a job or go back to China after graduation. You are not making a stand-alone decision.

Judging from your background and experience, I don't see any problem of you finding a similar position here. The issue is how old are you? Under 28 or above? If under 28, I encourage you to come and experience a totally different lifestyle, provided that your husband is still at University (because as soon as he graduates, he will face the problem of finding a job. Life will be totally different then.) Therefore, even if you two don't like here, you can still go back without fear of finding job back in China.

If you are over 28

and by the time you have made all the travel preparations, your husband has already graduated and he really wants to go back to China, I advice you to stay in China. Why? Take me for example, I am here almost a year and now working as Admin Assistant here with an average salary. My experience in and observation for this society are: job is hard to keep as compared to in China. In China, you are elite, here you are nobody. Even my English is good, all the cultural differences seem a barrier to me. Trying my best to tackle them. And you will have to consider a lot of problems, issues that you will never think of when you are in China. That's a tough job but challenging. C'est la vie.

I totally agree with Mr. Money: "Loser is looser, winner is winner. It does not matter where they are. " For positive people, they will always see the bright side of life. Difficulties to them are challenges. Check if you are this kind of people. If yes, welcome aboard.

冬天到了，春天还会远吗。。。

专业修理师 · Mar 10th, 2004, 10:17

This is the right point.
Others lost does not mean you will lose;
Others winning can definitely bring some sparks to your seek for succeed.
Remove the backing leg from Q, you will see a great O.

[This message was edited by 专业修理师 on March 10, 2004 at 12:26.]

mymymy · Mar 10th, 2004, 11:19

Others winning does not mean you will win too.

the main is worth or not

immcan · Mar 10th, 2004, 13:17

Why don't you try to transfer your position to IBM CANADA? I know so many people been transferred from IBM Taiwain to IBM Canada, but that's some twenty, thirty years ago.

Smart thinking, eh?

pseudo · Mar 10th, 2004, 14:00

That's true. I have some friends working for IBM who were once IBM China people. But they would take in computer guys instead of administrative guys because computer language is general while administrative support calls for local understanding.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote">quote:<HR>Originally posted by immcan:
Why don't you try to transfer your position to IBM CANADA? I know so many people been transferred from IBM Taiwain to IBM Canada, but that's some twenty, thirty years ago.

Smart thinking, eh?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

冬天到了，春天还会远吗。。。

honeywell88 · Mar 10th, 2004, 15:12

i do not think you lose anything if you come to canada, you can try to improve your enlish and experience life in Canana. i do not think it will be difficult to get a secretary job if you go back. The best choice is to continue study in
Canada, go for business admin or accounting whatever. You will succeed in you life

Jackie007 · Mar 10th, 2004, 15:20

Stop it.
China is better than Canada

fyfyfy · Mar 10th, 2004, 16:35

age is important for women, especially those who works as a secretary.

woxinyijiu · Mar 10th, 2004, 17:02

请和我联系,我有很多建议给你,首先不要轻易辞职,速来信.calgaryleo@hotmail.com

starrysky · Mar 12th, 2004, 07:58

Thanks for your warmly attention and kindly advice.

Yes I'm trying to get an internal transfer opportunity in IBM Canada but seems unaccessible based on IBM policy. However, IBMers can make an internal transfer once a year and there are considerable openings only for inside. I can do transfer only in IBM China, including ShangHai/BeiJing, but even cannot view the internal openings in IBM Canada via our intranet website.

Maybe I'll wait and see if I need to stay and postpone the date of set off.

joy_zhou · Mar 16th, 2004, 21:22

过得好的谁有闲工夫在这里闲逛给意见，所以能给大把意见的一定是闲着找工的，所以不能全信，个人观点

joy_zhou · Mar 16th, 2004, 21:25

还有一点，来这里后所谓ok的观点也要连根变变了，这里辛勤劳作量入为出就是ok了，不要再用国内的成功观来看这里生活的人，否则只有失望，个人观点

adaidai · Mar 17th, 2004, 03:49

各家柴米油盐各自知，大家也没必要指责别人。我们只是根据自己掌握的情况所说。说不说是我们，听不听在于你。各自珍重吧。梦想与现实永远是有差距的，不管你如何努力。

mymymy · Mar 17th, 2004, 07:06

精辟，支持！

fyfyfy · Mar 17th, 2004, 08:26

有时间来这儿说明他不是很饿。

tom · Apr 12th, 2004, 01:14

如果我是楼主就不要过来,看你在国内混了5年才混上IBM一个三等公民,到这边也就是打Labour的命.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote">quote:<HR>Originally posted by 糖兜兜‘’:
多伦多有一家政府资助的学校,帮助新移民找专业工作的实习机会.在学校学习两个月,实习三个月(无收入).我参加了这个项目,认识一个女孩,背景不如你强,(以前在国内国企做office manager)但是她很开朗乐观,人缘很好,找到一家大公司实习.做accounting clerk.现在几家大的中介都对她感兴趣.看起来很有希望.
IBM是大公司,如果你能拿到这边的实习经验,加上IBM的名头还是很有份量的.

只是刚开始生活水准肯定会下降,要做好吃苦的准备. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

IBM高技术还可以,其它的在这边就没有什么背景优势了.

专业修理师 · Apr 13th, 2004, 07:36

Good point. Support.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote">quote:<HR>Originally posted by starrysky:
是啊，很惭愧，虽然在IBM这里才是刚刚起步，但是我相信在自已的专业能力方面来说我不比别人差。当然我不是搞技术的，但是作秘书出身的实际上是很锻炼人的，不要小瞧了：）

我相信能否找到工作能力是一方面，但更重要的是你的性格和态度。Open, positive and honest can obtain more opportunities. 不管怎么样，我还是很有信心的，并且我打算在签证下来后尽早登陆。

我会持续地登陆这个网站，希望大家能在我遇到挫折时给我鼓励，让我能继续努力。 <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

batty · Apr 14th, 2004, 06:47

Hi, Starrysky

This is the first I open you post, but by going through all the discussions, I believe that you finally have your right choice. Be positive no matter whare you are.

You have care too much on the job site. But that is not the life, right ? Life is to stay with the people who you really care and you really love to, right ? My suggestion is to stay with your husband no matter where. But ask yourself why you applied to Canada ? Do you regret your decision ? If yes, don't come.

Job is for supporting the life. Opportunity is not just drop from the sky. With positive attitute, you can find the oppotunity everywhere.

Good Luck! I do not know when and whee you come, but have good trip to Canada. Stay with the person you love. I am in Toronto and if you want to contact me, send mail to : lingling_yip1996@yahoo.ca

All the best to you and your family

newman88 · Apr 29th, 2004, 18:33

I know two persons, who had been at IBM of China and could earn over 200K one year in China, are very happy in Canada.

Mar 10th, 2004, 06:03	只看该作者 #21
mr.money Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 12	Loser is looser, winner is winner. It does not matter where they are. Try it if you can, otherwise just stay where you are now, that will make you feel better.
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Mar 10th, 2004, 08:22	只看该作者 #22
pseudo Pipi Longstocking 注册日期: Jul 2004 住址: 土狼屯帖子: 588 声望: 132527	It depends on what's your husband's plan: stay here to find a job or go back to China after graduation. You are not making a stand-alone decision. Judging from your background and experience, I don't see any problem of you finding a similar position here. The issue is how old are you? Under 28 or above? If under 28, I encourage you to come and experience a totally different lifestyle, provided that your husband is still at University (because as soon as he graduates, he will face the problem of finding a job. Life will be totally different then.) Therefore, even if you two don't like here, you can still go back without fear of finding job back in China. If you are over 28 and by the time you have made all the travel preparations, your husband has already graduated and he really wants to go back to China, I advice you to stay in China. Why? Take me for example, I am here almost a year and now working as Admin Assistant here with an average salary. My experience in and observation for this society are: job is hard to keep as compared to in China. In China, you are elite, here you are nobody. Even my English is good, all the cultural differences seem a barrier to me. Trying my best to tackle them. And you will have to consider a lot of problems, issues that you will never think of when you are in China. That's a tough job but challenging. C'est la vie. I totally agree with Mr. Money: "Loser is looser, winner is winner. It does not matter where they are. " For positive people, they will always see the bright side of life. Difficulties to them are challenges. Check if you are this kind of people. If yes, welcome aboard. 冬天到了，春天还会远吗。。。

Mar 10th, 2004, 10:17	只看该作者 #23
专业修理师 Senior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 住址: 皮破奥斧枪一拿帖子: 741 声望: 95	This is the right point. Others lost does not mean you will lose; Others winning can definitely bring some sparks to your seek for succeed. Remove the backing leg from Q, you will see a great O. [This message was edited by 专业修理师 on March 10, 2004 at 12:26.]

Mar 10th, 2004, 11:19	只看该作者 #24
mymymy Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 50 声望: 0	Others winning does not mean you will win too. the main is worth or not
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immcan Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 61 声望: 43	Why don't you try to transfer your position to IBM CANADA? I know so many people been transferred from IBM Taiwain to IBM Canada, but that's some twenty, thirty years ago. Smart thinking, eh?
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Mar 10th, 2004, 14:00	只看该作者 #26
pseudo Pipi Longstocking 注册日期: Jul 2004 住址: 土狼屯帖子: 588 声望: 132527	That's true. I have some friends working for IBM who were once IBM China people. But they would take in computer guys instead of administrative guys because computer language is general while administrative support calls for local understanding. <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by immcan: Why don't you try to transfer your position to IBM CANADA? I know so many people been transferred from IBM Taiwain to IBM Canada, but that's some twenty, thirty years ago. Smart thinking, eh?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> 冬天到了，春天还会远吗。。。

Mar 10th, 2004, 15:12	只看该作者 #27
honeywell88 Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 3 声望: 0	i do not think you lose anything if you come to canada, you can try to improve your enlish and experience life in Canana. i do not think it will be difficult to get a secretary job if you go back. The best choice is to continue study in Canada, go for business admin or accounting whatever. You will succeed in you life
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Jackie007 Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 22 声望: 0	Stop it. China is better than Canada
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fyfyfy Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 46 声望: 0	age is important for women, especially those who works as a secretary.
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woxinyijiu Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 26 声望: 0	请和我联系,我有很多建议给你,首先不要轻易辞职,速来信.calgaryleo@hotmail.com
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Mar 12th, 2004, 07:58	只看该作者 #31
starrysky Senior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 692 声望: 2665240	Thanks for your warmly attention and kindly advice. Yes I'm trying to get an internal transfer opportunity in IBM Canada but seems unaccessible based on IBM policy. However, IBMers can make an internal transfer once a year and there are considerable openings only for inside. I can do transfer only in IBM China, including ShangHai/BeiJing, but even cannot view the internal openings in IBM Canada via our intranet website. Maybe I'll wait and see if I need to stay and postpone the date of set off.

Mar 16th, 2004, 21:22	只看该作者 #32
joy_zhou Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 13 声望: 0	过得好的谁有闲工夫在这里闲逛给意见，所以能给大把意见的一定是闲着找工的，所以不能全信，个人观点
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joy_zhou Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 13 声望: 0	还有一点，来这里后所谓ok的观点也要连根变变了，这里辛勤劳作量入为出就是ok了，不要再用国内的成功观来看这里生活的人，否则只有失望，个人观点
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Mar 17th, 2004, 03:49	只看该作者 #34
adaidai Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 20 声望: 0	各家柴米油盐各自知，大家也没必要指责别人。我们只是根据自己掌握的情况所说。说不说是我们，听不听在于你。各自珍重吧。梦想与现实永远是有差距的，不管你如何努力。
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Mar 17th, 2004, 07:06	只看该作者 #35
mymymy Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 50 声望: 0	精辟，支持！
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fyfyfy Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 46 声望: 0	有时间来这儿说明他不是很饿。
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Apr 12th, 2004, 01:14	只看该作者 #37
tom Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 2 声望: 0	如果我是楼主就不要过来,看你在国内混了5年才混上IBM一个三等公民,到这边也就是打Labour的命. <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by 糖兜兜‘’: 多伦多有一家政府资助的学校,帮助新移民找专业工作的实习机会.在学校学习两个月,实习三个月(无收入).我参加了这个项目,认识一个女孩,背景不如你强,(以前在国内国企做office manager)但是她很开朗乐观,人缘很好,找到一家大公司实习.做accounting clerk.现在几家大的中介都对她感兴趣.看起来很有希望. IBM是大公司,如果你能拿到这边的实习经验,加上IBM的名头还是很有份量的. 只是刚开始生活水准肯定会下降,要做好吃苦的准备. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE> IBM高技术还可以,其它的在这边就没有什么背景优势了.
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专业修理师 Senior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 住址: 皮破奥斧枪一拿帖子: 741 声望: 95	Good point. Support. <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by starrysky: 是啊，很惭愧，虽然在IBM这里才是刚刚起步，但是我相信在自已的专业能力方面来说我不比别人差。当然我不是搞技术的，但是作秘书出身的实际上是很锻炼人的，不要小瞧了：）我相信能否找到工作能力是一方面，但更重要的是你的性格和态度。Open, positive and honest can obtain more opportunities. 不管怎么样，我还是很有信心的，并且我打算在签证下来后尽早登陆。我会持续地登陆这个网站，希望大家能在我遇到挫折时给我鼓励，让我能继续努力。 <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Apr 14th, 2004, 06:47	只看该作者 #39
batty Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 19 声望: 0	Hi, Starrysky This is the first I open you post, but by going through all the discussions, I believe that you finally have your right choice. Be positive no matter whare you are. You have care too much on the job site. But that is not the life, right ? Life is to stay with the people who you really care and you really love to, right ? My suggestion is to stay with your husband no matter where. But ask yourself why you applied to Canada ? Do you regret your decision ? If yes, don't come. Job is for supporting the life. Opportunity is not just drop from the sky. With positive attitute, you can find the oppotunity everywhere. Good Luck! I do not know when and whee you come, but have good trip to Canada. Stay with the person you love. I am in Toronto and if you want to contact me, send mail to : lingling_yip1996@yahoo.ca All the best to you and your family
batty Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 19 声望: 0

Apr 29th, 2004, 18:33	只看该作者 #40
newman88 Junior Member 注册日期: Jul 2004 帖子: 11 声望: 0	I know two persons, who had been at IBM of China and could earn over 200K one year in China, are very happy in Canada.
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