Feb 26th, 2011, 23:16 | #1 |
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我也求助一下子
我闺女们跳舞的班里有个6/7岁的女孩,每次换衣服时候话都特多,她自己换衣服,今天看到我闺女们穿dora 的雪鞋,就开始大声说:ew~~~ew~~~its dora!! i dont like dora! dora is for little girl, not for big girl. who bought it for you? bala bala一大堆费话,表情特别厌烦,好象dora是POO一样.我闺女就特无奈的看着我,我也生气了,就说:hey, if u dont like dora, thats fine!然后这小女孩就不说话了. 每次都这样,她爸外面等她,她妈也不来,都是自己换衣服,一直说啊说的,总是说我闺女这个不好那个不好,然后就过来揪她俩衣服,要不就是把鞋扔了 你门说,我是不是反应过激?那我该咋办? |
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谢谢大家,我是对这个小姑娘本来就不喜欢,很多次我给老大穿衣服,她就把老二鞋扔到别处,我拿回来,又揪老大衣服,她爸在外面等,里面没有家长,我跟谁说呢,而且每次都是话很多,这个那个的,太让我讨厌了。所以这次我就发彪了。 我闺女没说话,就看着我。 |
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我倒,从没人说过我强势就我这样的,一看就是个受气的 引用:
俺家闺女,没戏,不会保护自己,自己玩具东西被别人抢走,连话都不敢说一句. |
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这种情况下,孩子那么小,5岁,能自己解决被打的问题吗. 我家闺女在学校,如果被打,她每次都告诉我,谁谁打她,我会告诉她,下次再发生:第一告诉打她那个孩子:THAT REALLY HURTS/然后去告诉老师.这是我不在场的情况, 如果我当时在场,我还是会亲自去找老师说的. |
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下次一定主义,总结一下大家建议: 小事交给孩子自己处理, 大事家长介入处理. 再次感谢大家,周末愉快 |
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孩子教育方面,我弱项,需要大家帮助. 引用:
孩子的确是耳闻目然家长的做法,我也不希望我闺女们以后和我一样.这么aggressive.其实我也就这一次aggressive,很多情况下,就一受气包子. |
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一直到这次,我才爆发,你说你个几岁小姑娘,咋这么讨厌呢.不过说完话,我也后悔了,跟个小孩子叫什么真呢. 这不才来求助地摸 我小时候在学校受欺负,都告诉我哥,我哥就叫一帮人过去打7,估计小时候情形投射在现在我内心里,我也这么aggressive了. 改,改,一定改 |
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