如果你爱你的老公, 但却实在不喜欢和他做爱, 怎么办?

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那你喜欢和谁做爱？性与爱不好分开的，事实上也很本分不开。

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作者: 李大哥

先搞清问题，然后才能对症下药：
1、你是不是根本就不喜欢他那个人，根本就不想让他插？如果是这样，何谈你爱你的老公？这种情况，只有换人一条路。

2、你还爱他，还想让他插，但他插的技术不好，没给你带来过快感。如果是这种情况，很好办，不用换人，你把详细情况说一下，这里有很多人可以帮你会诊，保证解决问题。
一句话，你还想不想让他插？为什么？

一针见血，酷毙了

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作者: Ronan

Actually the key point is the couple doesn't have enough communication. Chinese people unlike Western ppl don't like talk to your partner about your own issues including sex. Men like women need time to become experienced in sex with the help from their partners.

Whenever there is a unhappy feeling between each other, talking is the key to resolve the issue. If you do like your partner, you should trust him or her and encourage him or her to take action on the issue. Both of you should work hard to accomplish it.

One important point is don't think man is animal who just wants to have sex. We admit that man is more eager to have sex than woman compared to woman. But they also have burning desire to make their wifes happy if they do love their wifes. This is the bottom line for marriage.

If you, gals, ladies do love your men, make effort to communicate with them and tell them your feeling. With enormous effort, you two can accomplish it.

Good luck to the lady who posted this wonderful post because this raises a very important issue but has been ignored by most of Chinese people for a long time. Everyone deserves the happiness from having sex. However, just like other issue in daily life, you need to work hard to resolve it.

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