我应当辞职登录加拿大吗 - 请大家给一些我建议

[starrysky]

I'm currently the secretary of senior mgr in IBM China. My husband is in Canada for his master degree and will get diploma next year. The sanction of my permanent resident application for family class should be received by April I think. But now we face a problem - should I resign from my current job and land in Canada now?
My background is:
- 5 years work experience as a secretary, including GM's secreatary & assistant
- about half of year's experience in multinational company/IBM
- got a BA majored in Economics in a Middle-sized University
- without TOEFL grade, little preparation for enrollment at Canada University
- will transfer to a new position as a buyer in current company/IBM in mid-year.
- Present salary is 6k, just middle level in this city and the start level in IBM

two choices we can make:
1. I resign and land in Canada in Auguest, plan to take some trainig on Accounting, try to find a junior position on Accouting in one year. And then take some courses maybe Logistics or Accounting on the job. Also want to find some business opportunities between China & Canada as you guys would like to.
2. I keep my job and develope career in IBM, waiting my husband come back China after one year. Maybe I just need to make my first landing in Canada during this period. And we can decide if we will go to live in Canada or not one year later.

Could you kindly give me some advice just on your position? I really want to be together with my husband earlier since you may know how tough the live is in Canada by oneself. But it seems difficult for me to find a equivalent job in Canada. Think you guys may have been in such a dilemma so very appreciative if you can drop some comments here.

THANK YOU!

[mymymy]

the second is best. donot plan to move to canada.

[lxylt]

I do not think second is best.
It's waste your life....
The most important thing is decide your future.
This is a big decision but you should face it .

alex.l

[mymymy]

你老公应当知道加国的情况，这里是地狱。

[gusongjun]

即使不是地狱，也是“猪狗不如的日子”。我不明白，我老婆当初拼死拼活的要来加拿大　干什么？


我给自己五年时间，还混不好，回国当乞丐，也不想生活在这冷死人的鬼地方。

[zhangwenshan]

楼上的大虾说得对，支持一下

[CalgaryXP]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Lao Rentou:
即使不是地狱，也是“猪狗不如的日子”。我不明白，我老婆当初拼死拼活的要来加拿大　干什么？


我给自己五年时间，还混不好，回国当乞丐，也不想生活在这冷死人的鬼地方。<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


支持!

[性绞痛]

其实在加拿大的移民都是过着囚犯般的生活,
只是囚犯们还自己分了不同的等级(EX: LABOR, PROFESSIONAL...)

[bigbear]

国内的职业还有较大的发展空间，我看还是不要来了。

[LaserServices]

I don't think it is difficult to find an equivalent job if your English is OK.

[uuu]

你国内的经历和背景相对这里的移民来说，只能说很一般一般，你即使辞职了，也不没什么可惜。
你对来之后的想法都不实际，我是指你以国内的经济学背景干北美的会计，你需要重新在这里学习，比如在一个college里学习一年左右，那个会计证书之类，但提醒你，加拿大好像会计、经济服务之类的似乎太多了，这已不是好的选择了。

看你的英语读写肯定不错，不知听说如何，来之前，最好考个好的托福成绩，直接上学（我个人看法，如回国，读硕士，如留下，读个实用性的certificate最好）。

[Sith]

It depends on how you define the word "OK", using myself as an example, I have a "OK" professional job, a "OK" salary, and never know if I can still have these 2 "OK" stuffs if I am laid off in the future. Even with these "OK"s, I don't feel any big future laying in the front of my road.

Hard to say tho, it all depends on yourself and what kind of life style you prefer, but one thing could be pretty sure that if you come to Canada, your husband will seldom have a chance to dump you.

So if you two are looking for a stable life, it is worth a try in Canada; If thinking of exciting career, you'd better go with Option 2 since you will definitely go back to China eventually.

Good luck!!

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by LaserServices:
I don't think it is difficult to find an equivalent job if your English is OK.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

[uuu]

补充一下，千万不要去多伦多，那是最差的选择了。最好去，埃德蒙顿或卡城。

[adaidai]

Do not go to Canada! -- It's very diffuclt for you to get a job except you forget your past and work as a labor.
Anyway, suggest you come and stay here for a few days... then you decide your future...

To speak the truth, I'm a Master degree in Civil Engineering, as well as got so many diplomas in Computer sciences, but still could not get a satisfied job except a labor.

[mymymy]

不要轻举妄动，你辞了职就回不去了，来这里的很多人就是因为辞掉了国内较好的工作后难以找回而不能回国，尤其是国企或政府中的好职位。不只是工作问题，“移民来的，无论是靠技术还是凭投资，原来的优势都已不再，而这里所缺少的体力又正是他们的弱项，真是一夜回到了解放前：金钱因国力不同而贬值，技术也因语言障碍和国情差异而作废。曾经的“人上人”正在竞争做人下人；原来在办公室里喝茶看报的，现在都在那里争着做机械运动。”这里有的中国都有，这里没有的中国也有，只是中国发展的不甚平衡，农民来可以但他们来不了，你来了就和进城的民工一样了。这里的工厂就是打工挣钱的地方，干完活就走人。

[xing dong]

UP

[雪山]

1，技术水平极高，语言能力极强。
2，钱特别多。
3。适应能力极强，能当MANAGER，能端盘子。
具备上述三条之一，可来。
否则，还是在国内比较好，别来受洋罪。

[stills]

可以先过来登陆看看，找当地的新老移民好好谈谈，对比分析分析。每个人情况不一样，想法也不一样。有哭着喊着要回去的，也有觉得在加拿大打labor也很幸福的原国内白领。个人认为你的第一个想法实现起来难度大，现在人多，找会计工作不容易，而且也就是十块左右的工资。中加贸易更是空中楼阁。 先登陆保留身份，再在ibm寻求发展感觉更可行。

I'm back

[专业修理师]

在这样的灰调气氛中, 结果是可想而知的. 但毕尽他们代表不了什么. 记住, 每个人的意见都是依据各自的环境,背景,经历而来的.

[mymymy]

阿Q罢了，我没看见有谁怎么样了，没有谁想代表什么，只是把这里的事情讲出来而已。