Oct 22nd, 2006, 22:46 | #1 |
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碰到无赖了,请推荐一个好的律师
我是独立技术移民申请人,2003年初和孩子他爸登陆时还维持着家庭的关系,将他也带到了加拿大,虽然我们在移民纸到手之前早就分居了。等1个月后落地手续办利索后,他委托了国内的人做他的代理人,我回国和他办理了离婚,孩子归我抚养。最近孩子来到了加拿大,可是他仍然拒付孩子的抚养费,且耍无赖说他没钱,让我爱怎么样怎么样。孩子都已经7岁了!我自己的收入也只是温饱而已,带一个孩子,处处用钱,的确需要他能从经济上尽一点他应尽的责任。 因为我们离婚时是永久居民身份,且是国内办理的离婚,不知道加拿大方面是否承认我们的离婚?离婚证倒是在国内公证过了。2003年下半年我托朋友给他在Hamilton找了个时薪23的工作,他嫌远;以后我又帮他找了个仓库开叉车的工作,又被人Fire了。所以,象他这种人好吃懒做,有可能他表面上没有支票收入,这种情况下,如果打官司,有希望吗?肯请明白人指点,或者推荐一个好律师。 此帖于 Oct 23rd, 2006 23:11 被 s98334 编辑。 |
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Oct 26th, 2006, 23:32 | 只看该作者 #9 | |
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这里打官司不好玩,不向你想象的那样。你告他,他也有足够的理由不支付,最后就看谁能拖到底了。一句话,给律师发工资了 来到这不容易,大家都要讲道理啊。他是无赖,你又是什么? 大家都不是省油的灯。 |
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爱象这深秋的枫叶 把一生的美丽 凝聚于短短的一瞬 |
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Nov 9th, 2006, 16:13 | 只看该作者 #18 |
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He should pay.
I heard one of my friend's friend divorced and he didn't pay childcare. His ex-wife went to family court to report. It is free to report he didn't pay childcare. The result is: he can not renew/apply driver licence. His income was monitered by court. In this case, as long as he make some money, the court will take money from his bank account. This guy cannot get on airplane to visit his parents for Christmas because he doesn't has a valid driver licence. Sorry, I can not type Chinese now. Canadian family law has better control in this case than Chinese law. You have the right to ask childcare if he is in Canada now. I think he is new here if you report him to family court, he cannot apply citizenship and he will have hard time to go back China or other province. At same time, he has the right to visit your child and spend time with your child if you give him the permission. I remember he have to require visit 2 weeks in advance if you want to make trouble to him. If you have a reasonable reason, you can refuse his visit. If you want to report him, I suggest you go the family court to enquire. They should have some free consulting for you, at least some material for you to read. Personaly, if he doesn't care about his child, why bother to contact him again. Focus on your new life here. I am sure your child and you will live happy in Canada without him. Don't beg him just for money. |
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Nov 15th, 2006, 00:11 | 只看该作者 #19 |
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谢谢你们的回复。尤其是calgarysmile。 我发这个帖子的本意是要找个律师咨询一下,一是想确认我的离婚是否在加拿大有效,而是想了解一下法律对于他这种行为的底线是什么。其实我还在犹豫是不是要把他告上法庭,主要是为了不懂事的孩子,另外还是不想做得太绝。 其实,我生气的主要是他对自己亲生儿子的漠不关心和那种我是无赖我怕谁的嚣张。这里有几位说我把他害得够惨了,忍不住我想说几句。我不知道你们这话从何而来。先不说我帮自己已分居的前夫申请来这里,就是正式离婚以后,我还帮他找工作,我怎么害得他?他自己跟老板打架被辞退也是我害的吗?我自打来了加拿大,为省钱就住在阴冷阴冷的地下室,一住就是3年,直到最近找了个工作才搬了家,人家可是潇潇洒洒的住Apartment;3年里我都是自己做饭,从来没有去过饭店,人家可是满多伦多的中菜馆没有没吃过的,西餐馆没听他提起,不知道是不是也常光顾;我打工乘车要转4趟车,一打就是3个冬天,每天路上要4个小时,我没舍得买车,人家说是没工作,却早早买上了车;满加拿大从东到西,从北往南,人家到处旅游....... 说话要讲良心。 |
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